ok ok Women say I'm very attractive & everything else, but these women still go out with everybody else, and when these guys turn out to be bad for them they tell me.
I just don't get it, what am I doing for them not to date me, better yet what should I do, Thanks! :)
2006-12-01 01:42:05 · 14 answers · asked by crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women practice dismissal, fear, and preoccupation.
You need an opening line, small talk, and to close with getting their number or a date.
The number one dating advice for women is "play hard to get".
Also, no one has ever seen the start of a relationship, and obese blobs, (that are 50% of the population), have immature hysteria that causes delirium in good looking women.
2006-12-04 07:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are very attractive that may scare women away. They may be concerned that you are self centered and focus more on yourself than anyone else. Don't look so hard to find someone, it will happen in time. Don't settle for first woman either. If you are TRULY a good man, loving, generous, kind, understanding, accepting you deserve to take your time and find someone who will make you happy as well. Dating sites online can be helpful but be careful, rarely are people completely honest and it will take a few dates - or more- to find someone worthwhile.
2006-12-01 09:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever actually asked any of these women out? You have to be proactive in your own life. If you want to date more often. Then you have to put yourself out there more often. You may get 10 nos before you get a yes. But if you don't try...you wont get anything. Sounds as if you've put yourself in the position of "friend". Until you make the woman or women you are interested in aware that you are interested...They aren't even going to consider you. Get some Mo Jo going!
2006-12-01 09:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're allowing that to happen, I mean if you show them you're interested (Since the beginning) that you want to be more than friends, they won't talk to you like "the best friend" they'll talk to you like a regular guy that wants to date them.
When you treat a girl like a friend she won't try to flirt or anything because she already thinks that you see HER as a friend. There are very little women out there that confess to their best friend they are in love with him / her.
If you want to date them look for the girl you want, and not the one that seems like she wants to be just friends with you and once you meet her talk to her clearly about the way you want the relationship to go.
2006-12-01 09:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem but reverse I guess. My guy friends say that all the losers want to date me for one thing. All the decent guys are scared to ask me out, because I'm intimidating, they're scared of being shot down by me. I don't understand it. Maybe it's the same thing with you. All the women are scared your going to shot them down, or they will wind up hurt.
Good Luck!
2006-12-01 09:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're telling you - you're a "nice guy". I don't need to tell you - they finish last. However, be patient, and someone who appreciates that will come along. Girls go for the guys that cause them grief - don't ask me why - I'll never get it. Just keep on being a nice guy - don't become an ****** just to get a date!
2006-12-01 10:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah babe - it always seems like good guys finish last, but its just not true. You will get a date sooner or later and it'll be well worth the wait.
But seriously, if you go around with a yahoo name of "crazy" there could be consequences lol
2006-12-01 09:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they dont like your personality. You may be hot, but are you a jerk? Maybe you need to start asking girls out that have the same interest as you. Try talking to them about something that they like. Be respectful to and honest with them.
2006-12-01 09:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Bubblez707 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try asking out people that have the same interests, that are intellectually stimulating..not just HOT...
Other than that....I would LISTEN to her. Talk to her. And be honest and loyal.
2006-12-01 09:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by acullenhurley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your acting has if you only want a friendship have you asked any of these girls out on a date if not try it i bet they would say yes
2006-12-01 09:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋