I like a someone, he is a client of the office that i work ,3 years younger than i (he is 23), we went out for i drink 2 times and he seemed interested in me but nothing happened , Then he sent me a message telling me that he is confusted this period and he can't start a new relatioship but he wants us to keep in touch. Is this the truth or is it something else that i don't see??
2006-12-01 01:31:17 · 15 answers · asked by Natasa A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he says he wants to keep in touch he is interested however since he says he cant start a new relationship.. he probably is already in one with somebody else and by "keeping in touch" he is basically making you his "backup" i would def not dwell on him find someone else.
2006-12-01 01:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he has a girlfriend and is stringing you along in case he decides to break up with her
Or he will see if he can continue to see both of you.
When you are into someone - it is simple - you don't hide behind
I am confused
I have been hurt before
or
I got scared cause i like you so much,.
Find a guy who;s not confused and who doesn't play games
There are lots out there.
2006-12-01 01:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Bebe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says that's what he wants to do, then I'd say it's the truth. Men have problems that they also need to deal with, same as women. Remain his friend, but keep the relationship thoughts in your mind quiet, at least for a little while longer.
2006-12-01 01:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you. Don't take it personal. And don't try to keep communicating with him. There isn't any point in it. Move on. Keep yourself open to someone that isn't confused about how he feels about you. Not worth your time or energy. You are a great catch for someone. Just not him. Do something nice for yourself to get back on track. Get a manicure, a pedicure, your hair done. What ever it is you do that makes you feel good. And remember...His loss not yours.
2006-12-01 01:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems honest enough to say that he's confused at the minute and that he's not ready to get into anything with you. At least he didnt keep you hanging on. Thats a plus point for him.
Not sure. But maybe best you dont wait around for him.
2006-12-01 01:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just got out of a bad relationship and just want to let you know. Wait a little bit and see what will happen next.
2006-12-01 01:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no reason for him to lie to you at this point. You've only gone out 2 times, so I'd say find another man and just leave him be.
2006-12-01 01:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by ceecee_41004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find someone else that isn't so CONFUSTED and move on.
2006-12-01 01:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is telling you the truth in a nice way.
2006-12-01 01:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares, the outcome is the same either way. Stop torturing yourself and move on.
2006-12-01 01:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋