im in love with more than one guy and even though it is a great feeling,i kinda feel guilty. so i need to know if this is possible in order to do something to clear my conscience..
2006-12-01 01:23:24 · 16 answers · asked by Michelle M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it is not possible to fall in love with two guys at the same time. Love doesn't share. You may fall in lust with two guys at the same time or liking two guys at the same time, but please don't use the term love so lightheartedly. If you are in love with someone that means you feel like there couldn't be anyone else for you but that person. I'm married and I am IN LOVE with my husband and I couldn't ever imagine loving anyone else but him. People tend to catagorize every deep feeling as LOVE, but really love is so much more then what people think or feel it is. What you are feeling is NOT love!!! It may be many things, but not love... LOVE is to jealous to have to share itself with two people.
2006-12-01 01:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jontue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's that you're in love with both or with either of them - maybe you're like me- i feel the same way when i'm getting lots of attention. But yeah you really should choose one or the other- before they find out about each other and you lose them both ......good luck
2006-12-01 09:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by answers4questions 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its possible -- but are you really "in love" with them? It might just be infatuation. Get to know both of them. Once you're less strangers, the love triangle will surely tilt one way or the other. Just don't play games with both of them if they know each other. That's unfair.
2006-12-01 09:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love you are infatuated and loving the attention. Stop mistaking love for attention. Why feel guilty you are simply playing the field just like they do.
2006-12-01 09:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Nana T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might love them both, but you are certainly not "in love." When you are in love, that is cupids arrow, stars in your eyes, you'd do anything for that ONE person. That person is the one for you and no one else. You could definitely have feelings for both but just not being "in love." I sincerely hope you aren't leading them both on before you sort out your feelings.
2006-12-01 09:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to love more than one guy at the same time. But you can only be loyal to one.
2006-12-01 09:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it gets very complicated, so best to choose at some point if you are looking to get into a serious relationship with one of them.
2006-12-01 09:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by bklynshanti 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats not love, love can be for only one person, if you really love someone you won't find the need to love someone else. in your case you only like that person thats why you are searchinf for your mr. perfect...
2006-12-01 09:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by Agent_Double 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you could fall in love the different qualities of the different guys as long as your not dating both of them its ok
2006-12-01 09:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by *Sweet_Kisses* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure its possible....but just dont date them at the same time because then you would not be a very nice person
2006-12-01 09:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by pinkkitten 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋