I am a 16 year old guy. About two months before my birthday when I was 15, I was in my basement and took off all my clothes, got naked and began masturbating on my recliner with baby oil to pictures of our high school cheerleaders and I orgasmed for the first time, and since then I have been doing it frequently. My question is how much is too frequent? I have been mainly masturbating about girls in my high school wearing a t shirt bent over with no panties on. Or I just simply am masturbating to celebrities like Jessica Simpson, Jessica Biel, Angelina Jolie, Katie Holmes, Hillary Duff, Lindsay Lohan, Rachel McAdams, Pink, and the list goes on and on. I am usually doing it to the pictures. It was once a day but now its more like two or three times a day. The other day I did it about 5 times so now I am worried am I doing it too much. I still talk to girls at school but I am afraid to have sex right now. Is it ok to have these fantasies and are they healthy?
2006-12-01 01:20:31 · 18 answers · asked by eastwood1870 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a normal, healthy 16 year old guy!
2006-12-01 01:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's perfectly normal to do so. I think about Lindsay Lohan, Jessica simpson, Hilary Duff, & Britney Spears when I masturbate. Plus I would think about cheerleaders or gymnasts or the girls swimteam from high school. It's perfectly normal for a teenager to have these fantasies and thoughts. I'm lesbian though so it's normal for me to have the same fantasies a guy has.
2006-12-01 09:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by Cuddly Lez 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Talk to someone another male like your father are brother and ask them for advise. If you have a doctor tell him the problem you have and then go from there. I am a women and sometimes I have to please myself and I find to be ok, but you said 5 times a day that is a little to much, so try the frist step's frist and if they don't work a cold shower may work. You don't want to hurt it by pulling and rubbing it all the time.
2006-12-01 09:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess everybody is going through these phases. Don't worry. It's hard trying to gain control but you have to fight it. Yeah... it may feel good to you but it has already become a tough habit to beat. It's ok to have fantasies but that is it. If you don't fight the urge, you might even take this into a higher level and like you said you're not ready for sex yet.
2006-12-01 09:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by Cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal, and a healthy way to release your sexual tension. Quite simply, an orgasm is outstanding. I don't know how often you hit the 5 times a day, because that seems a little excessive. But if your body is able to generate that much...hmm...energy, then go fo it. :)
2006-12-01 09:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea man ive been their.
Try cutting back to at least once a week, save your self for sats. You will get over worked and loose focus alot. Masturbating is good for you, but its actually BAD, look it up on the internet, about masturbating alot and what effects its has on you. When i found out i cut back alot, b/c i realized that i was having some of those symptoms as well.
Masturbating more than 2 times a day, or once a day, can get you testical cancer so; i think you should cut back.
-James
2006-12-01 09:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It is ok for guys to masturbate. I beleive it is better than having sex if your not ready. But 5x a day is a little over the edge, don't you agree?
2006-12-01 09:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by meek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is extremly healthy to masturbate just try not to over do it and fantasising about girls is a whole part of our life so there is no need to worrry
2006-12-01 09:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rock out with your c*ck out man! You sound like a perfectly normal, healthy 16 year old guy. I would worry about you if you did not spank it so much at your age.
I almost forgot....... Please do not listen to Jameswill. He has got it all wrong.
2006-12-01 10:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by Teufel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds normal and healthy to me.
2006-12-01 10:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋