2006-12-01 01:13:57 · 15 answers · asked by nushnush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Call HRC, they will find a really nice place for you to live.
2006-12-01 01:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it is possible, but generally not common. I could be in the eyes of the beholder, in other words, i am guessing that the kid is you and that you feel that your parents don't care about you @ all. If that is true, i would like you to consider why you feel that way, or what has gone on in your household; did one of your parents just loose a job, is money not coming in, are your parents fighting a lot, do you have a new sibling on the way, around Christmas time is it generally hard for your parents or maybe parent. Or other things like that, if you answered no to all of them, then maybe you just don't see the real side of the picture. Sometime it seems like a parent doesn't care but it's the complete opposite, they care too much and the child just doesn't like them care that much. I have gone through this situation with two close friends now, "MY PARENTS DON'T CARE ABOUT ME, I THINK THAT IT'S SO STUPID THAT THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT ME!" My reply was simple, give it time, it will be alright and eventually you will see a change.
2006-12-01 01:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are telling you no it is cause they do care about you and don't want you to get involved in things that will lead to your demise. Children often believe there parents are selfish or unfair or mean or uncaring of the children, but this is far from the truth. Your parents care for you and guide you because they love you. They don't want you to make bad choices so they prevent it. It is not about being selfish or not caring how you feel. It is about your health and safety. Mentally, physically, and emotionally. If it is a really bad situation you are in and your parents are mistreating you or abusing you, then you can always go to a foster home.
2006-12-01 01:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by L.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mother myself, to red this question makes me so sad. I am sad because I know what you mean. I see it in some of my friends who are parents, sad to say and I have had to tell them straight out, that what they are doing is wrong! Some listen and learn, others continue their lifestyle.
What parents tend to forget sometimes, is there most important job in the world is taking care of their children. Your children should be the most important thing in their lives.
What "you" should do is ask to talk to them. Let them know how you feel. Ask them the same question you asked all of us. See what they say. Have your siblings present too. Have them all say a little something about how they feel. (Parents often feel "hey its my life too and I want to do somethings that make me Happy") I say, that's fine! But balance your life out....be there for your kids. Its healthy for parents to stay connected with their own lives because then they will be more relaxed to deal with their children's needs. However, some parents take it too far.
The fact you put this question on this site really shows me how much you care and are seeking help.
I hope this helps. I hope they give you the time you need and really listen to your feelings. Try not to yell. Try not to sound angry. Try not to sound hurt. Just try letting them know, you need them.
Hope all goes well.
2006-12-01 01:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by megabites42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na
They love you, but you may not show them that you care for them. You may be pushing them away, and therefore the result is them staying away, giving you space. I dont know your situation, but im willing to think they dont see life the way that you do, and thats the problem. You should be more open with then. Ask them to take YOU some place like the mall for shopping, or movies ect. Make friends with your family, and wait it out. They do care for you other wise they would have thrown you out long ago, or gave you away when you were a baby.
They love you, trust me. :]
-James
2006-12-01 01:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This paragraph is the perfect example of the difference between 15 and 18 :] Your parents want you to be healthy and successful. They are grown and wise enough to know that most of your current friends are not worth changing your life for, and also know that you don;t realize it. Your duty goes to the people you live with. They serve you, and you serve them.
2016-05-23 07:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww... I am sure they care about you feelings hun. It may not seem like it now but when you get older and have kids you will understand they do what they think is best for the family.
2006-12-01 01:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You most likely wont be very close to them and you will be forced to mature faster being more independant. You should either deal with it and dont hang around them much, try to work on them, or talk to someone (Im guessing you dont want those child people who try to put you in a foster home).
2006-12-01 01:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by Male16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that one day you will realize that most of the decisions your parents make are in your best interest. We never understand this until we get older. Your parents job is to protect you ...sometimes from yourself when you're growing up. Believe me, one day you'll realize how much they love you and you will appreciate them so much more.
2006-12-01 01:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking with your parents if that don't work, try and get them to see things from your point of view
2006-12-01 01:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by adblodgett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋