well i just started talking to this guy. we met @ the gym where i work & wev hung out a few times- things are going ok. were not trying to mkae it serious right, were just "going with the flow". its been about ...3 weeks i think & we'v kissed. but thats all. winter break it coming up & im excited to meet his friends when they come back from school. the reason im nervous is im only 18. & hes 20. aso his friends will prob be a bit older .. 20,21 ect. so will they except me & will they be cool w/ me hanging around them. or like what can i do, to show them im fun. how should i act? haha this sounds gay for asking but im nervous! soo if you have any tips about what i should do w/ my " friend" and "his friends" lemmie know :]
2006-12-01 01:07:49 · 13 answers · asked by marissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not enough age gap to worry about.
2006-12-01 01:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to first of all forget about all those friends stuff. Concentrating on the guy you love. Since you've already had a kiss before, it then becomes very simple. So, whatever you did to trigger the kiss, do it again, and don't stop till you get your clothes off and do start whatever your brains dictate next.... cheers!
2006-12-01 09:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nervous just means you're human!
Don't freak out- he likes you for who you are! Don't change that. Be yourself and everything will fall into place if it's where you should be. Take a friend of yours with you - when meeting all his friends or whatever- if you'd feel more comfortable having someone you know there with ya ! good luck
2006-12-01 09:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by answers4questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, but maybe when u first meet his friends be a little bit more chilled than u usually r,at least for a few minutes until you get to see how they are. Then if you (emphasis on you) think they're cool be your true self. If they really r cool then they'll like u.
2006-12-01 09:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be yourself, don't try and be something that you are not because they will see through that. Also remember that will realize that you are going to be nervous, so what ever you do don't talk too much and don't be too quiet. Just go with the flow, I'm sure that you will be fine
2006-12-01 09:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a big age difference at all. If he likes you, then hopefully his friends will like you as well. He started liking you because you were being you. You should just be yourself. If they don't like you, you will at least feel good that you didn't change yourself to get their approval. Good luck!
2006-12-01 09:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since he is only 20 you guys cant very well go out drinking so just hang out with them and be cool dont hang all over your man unless he hangs on you dont be over bearing on him and dont get mad at anything he does unless it happens to be with another woman. give them all week try out pass's to your gym
they will love it and you
good luck
2006-12-01 09:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If they're good friends, then they'll probably be suspicious about you, but if you're nice and act like yourself, then you should be fine!
2006-12-01 09:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is easy to have these feelings try to keep grounded to your roots.Don't forget to speak your opinions and don't be pressured by things you dislike.most important have fun
2006-12-01 09:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by mudcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself --- the guy likes you for who you are --- if his friends dont well you are not looking to go out with them
2006-12-01 09:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋