why can't he see how much worse it makes it, how much more it hurts? i mean, if thats what he feels for me, why is he dumping me?
2006-12-01 01:02:58 · 15 answers · asked by becky d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To soften the blow I think. To say even though we're not together I still care about you and he does think your wonderful.
2006-12-01 01:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Kerri 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It because he still likes you, but he just doesn't want to be in a relationship with right. I know that it does hurt more but he wants you to move on and find someone that will appreciate you and look after you.
If you want to find out why he dumped you don't ask him just yet, wait a few weeks until you are feeling stronger and are not so upset and then either send him a note or ask if you could see him and then ask him. However if you do ask him just prepare yourself for what he might say, so make sure that you meet him when you are feeling better because it could make you feel worse
2006-12-01 01:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really does hurt when someone we loves stops loving us back
and it sound like this guy wants out of this relationship and is trying to do it in as nice a way as he can what he does not realise is that he is hurting you more. Be strong and ask him to leave you alone and not to keep coming back, or to come round, if he does any of thees things that is. you have to get on with your life. you are a good person and the right person is out their for you be positive good luck
2006-12-01 01:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by maz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because sometimes it is nice to look at it from the outside and remember the good things. trust me. people aren't always right for each other, and if you are struggling to get over it, look at all of the bad things and only talk about the good things to each other, its sounds silly but its a good healer.
its also nice to be civil to people, even though he dumped you, life's too short. get out there and live some more
xxx
2006-12-01 01:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by ♫ ♥green heather butterfly♥ ♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have broken up with you because he didn't think he could be the guy that he thinks you need him to be. It could be all in his head that he isn't good enough for you. Ask him why he said it if you can. Good luck and hope things get better for you soon.
2006-12-01 01:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by Joey R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its to ease his mind, 2 make him feel like hes a gd person even after hes hurt u by dumping you.what a prat
2006-12-01 02:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by kitten 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouln't choose him to choose you returned. He broke your heart.. he had is shot and he blew it. detect a music that describes the type you experience..(avril) then attempt to pass on. it's going to be complicated yet you willl recover from him finally...
2016-12-13 17:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes doing it to make himself feel like hes not hurting you as much (if you get what i mean!) and also if you fall for what he says it means the door is left open if he wants to get back together with you! (so dont fall for it, ignore him and find a more worthy guy!)
2006-12-01 01:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he doesn`t know a good thing wen he`s got it. i`m sorry for how u must be feeling. keep going forward and find urself a decent guy that will give u wot u really deserve. keep ur chin up
2006-12-01 01:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by graham f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He screwed up. Maybe he found someone else then found out that they turned out to S.H.I.T. Now h'es found out his mistake he wants you back. I can't tell you to take him back if he wants to or if you want to. You might base your decision on what one of on here tells you but the ultimate decision is YOURS! Good luck whatever you decide.
2006-12-01 02:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋