She left me for another guy,i'm here in florida visiting my family,missing her to death,then,last night,i talked to her on the phone, she didn't sound right, kind of funny, i would give her the world, 1st time we were togeather, we were togeather for about 3 weeks,this time (#2)
was only 2 weeks,when i'm not around, she looks for someone to comfort her (so i figured out). and i know it cause that is the same reason why she left me the 1st time. I really love her, i cried all last night, and i feel as though i should walk off a cliff, i don't know anymore, my life hasn't been the easiest lately, and it is hard to get through school, family, and now this, she helped me by coming back to me, and i started to feel "normal" again,i just want to go home,what is wrong with me? do i have issues or something? is it her? what do i do to get her back to me FOREVER? I'm only in high school, but i have this feeling that i can spend the rest of my life with her. i appreciate all the help... thanks.
2006-12-01 00:45:28 · 7 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing that you can do to change her mind. Don't force her because even if you succeed, after a while she will eventually leave you or worse cheat on you believe me my friend, I experienced cheating from the girl that I gave everything for her and was ready to sell my car if she needed something that I could not give her. And don't do foolish things like you said walk off a cliff. DON'T BE AN IDIOT IT'S NOT WORTH IT. Believe me mate. I know that this will hurt you, but this is eventually what you have to do - tell her to Fu*k off and move on with your life. I don't know what other problems you have but let me advise you, firstly solve the personal problems you said you have. Then when you are all calmed down, find another girlfriend yourself. Hope this helps and Good Luck mate and remember life is beautiful and don't do silly things.
2006-12-01 00:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, it's probably too soon to be thinking about forever...I know that's not what you want to hear but, it's the truth. I'm not much older than you and I've felt like that two or three times. I thought I was in love and wanted to spend the rest of my life with someone. But, it didn't happen that way. They treated me bad, cheated, or just dated me because they liked the idea of having a girlfriend. But, then they broke up with me or I found out what was really going on and moved on with my life. Then, I was with a guy for a year and realized that those past relationships were only making me stronger for the real thing. If you know for a fact that it is the real thing, then, let her know how you feel. Tell her that you love her and tell her it hurts you when she acts like that. If she's for real, she'll work with you to get through it...and if she doesn't, my advice is that she may not care about you as much as you care about her...
2006-12-01 00:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She has made her decision, If you try to "reverse it" She will only reject you more if you try.
get on with your life now, forget her, there is nothing you can do about it.
Listen .....If she is going to leave you for another guy, then she is not worth keeping. so lets say for a moment that You could get her back....You would be living in a very insecure relationship as you would be constantly be afraid that "someone else" can "take her away" from you. You wanna live like that?
Man ...Find someone that wont make you "paranoid" every time you go to work or whatever.
2006-12-01 00:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
guy examine your self and pull your self at the same time you're extra desirable off without her because of the fact she jus utilising u and prefer a fool u take her lower back now according to threat u think of that u could desire to never discover yet another love like this yet u will jus provide in time and your existence is worth plenty do no longer think of roughly killing your self because of the fact accessible is your one genuine love jus waiting for u..... Pray to god to assist u in this trial u ought to flow actual and bigger of success...
2016-12-14 10:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she dont know how sweet of a guy u r so just let her go there is alot of fish in da sea really she must be cheatin on dat other guy too cuz if she cheat once she will do it again
2006-12-01 00:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by lilmomma 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let her go, she sounds like she is very flighty. focus on school and enjoy ur self. u still have a life time in front of u. who knows she may be in ur future let nature take its course
2006-12-01 00:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by purple_butterfly_freak 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is a stupid and selfish girl
2006-12-01 00:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Santa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋