I recently heard a Chick say all she wanted was a man that would love her for who she is and won't change her. That's kind of hypocritical, it is a known fact that Chicks are the ones that try and change men all the time. It is idiotic of them to fall in love with a guy and after a bit of dating or marriage, they try to buy him clothes or stuff that fits what the Chicks likes and not what the guy likes, they are the ones that try to change men, that's why the divorce rate is high, most men break free from the clasp of PsychoticBitches.
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2006-12-01 00:44:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, the high rates of divorce is because men CAN'T keep it on their pants and decide to have every woman they like aside of the wife.
About a man that won't change them it means this:
You like blonde, I'm not blonde. Why chosing me to then want me to dye my hair when there's plenty of blondes out there? You like wild, I'm shy. Why wanting to turn me into something I don't feel comfy with when there's plenty of wild girls out there? Leave shy ones for those who appreciate them.
My husband wanted a whore, but he chose me to then torment me because he wanted to turn me into one. I didn't, so he went out there to seek what he was lacking at home. I decided I wasn't gonna put up with someone that can't have respect of me, so I dumped him. I wish him good luck on his search for a whore. He'll find one, there's plenty of them out there.
Same goes with girls that chose a pig and want to turn them into a person. GIRLS, leave pigs to whores and get men instead.
Now, if there's room for improvement, as in things that will help both grow and not diminish, then both should agree to modify some things. Emphasis on the word MODIFY, which doesn't mean radical change. The only person that has the power to change you is yourself. No one else.
2006-12-01 00:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most people in general want to find someone to accept them for themselves. Everyone does a little changing in a relationship because you have another person's feelings and needs to consider.
2006-12-01 00:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one that a person can change is one self.
Hoping for someone to come and change, is hope from the person him/her self that is not carried out because of the lack of courrage one self.
2006-12-01 00:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleazy, have you been hurt by love? I think if you just had a good woman, you would be fine! Maybe i can help you? If i say it is my community service work, my husband will let me take care of you? Come give me a hug!
2006-12-01 00:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Pardonne Moi? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LMAO and I always have to tell mennot to change, that if I wanted them to change I couldn't possibly be in love with them. Go figure.
2006-12-01 00:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think men or women should try to change their boyfriends or girlfriends.
2006-12-01 00:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never want my man to change. He wouldn't be who I fell in love with. He told me that he didn't want me to change once we were married and I told him, "Don't worry. I would marry you for you and you would marry me for me." People don't change. They learn to compromise with each other by being honest and compassionate.
2006-12-01 00:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no because often people do not really know what they want.
2006-12-01 01:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by Biz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some ways, yes.
2006-12-01 00:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by castroville 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows what women want... especially if they dont know them selves
2006-12-01 02:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by diamondg4u2c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋