ok..so you and a guy got along well on the phone..quite well, or really well..you dunno each other or don't have any idea who the other person is..then you meet up..then the guy didnt message or call you anymore..
ok, so now..
my question is..
what are all the possible reason which makes a guy do that..?
aside looks, cuz assume the looks are average..
2006-12-01 00:35:25 · 9 answers · asked by LadyN 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember guys think different than girls, for guys looks are extremely powerful, we cannot like a girl we are not attracted to phisically even if she has the greatest personality in the world. Now... if we are attracted to somebody and then we discover that this person has an incompatible personality then its all over, even if she is a model. the first thing that comes to mind is...
1) Looks (Doesn't mean you are ugly, I'm attracted to girls my friens are not attracted to all the time, we all have "our type")
2) He interested in somebody else.
3) He is shy and though it din't went well, that you din't like him for some reason.
2006-12-01 01:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by the_brain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy so I reckon it could be one of the following : (1) Perhaps he had built up an "expectation" of you through all the phone conversations and it could be that he was dissapointed in what he say . In other words you weren't what he expected . (2) Guys do a lot of things purely because it's "instinctive" . If a guy doesn't really have 'feelings' for a woman , then he gets "bored" very quickly . (3) Maybe he thinks you're a real "hottie" and feels embarressed about himself and thinks he's not good enough for you .
2006-12-01 08:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can think of 2 generic reasons --- he did not like the total personality when you met ---- talking on the phone is one thing in person is another
he only wanted sex and was knocked back because the lady wanted a real relationship
2006-12-01 08:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things,
First, maybe he didn't find what he was expecting to, and second, men usually don't give follow-ups unless there's the possibility of sex because they think giving follow-ups makes them weak. It's an ego thing.
2006-12-01 08:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you jus werent what he was looking for, maybe you's didnt click when you's met face to face.
when you're communicating with someone before meeting them you build up an image of a person and build them up to be unbelievable and everything you've ever wanted ... then when you meet them its a different story. it sucks but thats life!
2006-12-01 08:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Caz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* You might not be like the person he has imagined when you were on phone.
* He might seriously be in a situation where he cannot contact you,
* He might not like you,
* He thought that you might tell or ask something, but you dint.
Anyways are you worrying for that?
Forget it lol... There'll be one for you for sure...
2006-12-01 08:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by jo p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may be waiting for u to response too.
2006-12-01 08:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry- but sounds like you didn't do it for him physically.
2006-12-01 08:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by carmen (I'm a girl dammit!) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boredom
2006-12-01 08:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by Bootilicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋