i am a 17 yrs old guy but a bit matured and i think i am in love with a girl 2yrs older than me but a bit un-matured who happens to be my relative but lives in a different country....anyways i was with this girl for some 10 days or less than that 2yrs back when i went to india for my sisters wedding and after I returned I started missing her, seeing her here and there(assuming other girls to be her) and i even see her in my dream in her present state i mean all the changes tht accure in her since then(i get it confirmed by ppl who come from india) remember tht i havent seen her or heard her voice for 2yrs!(its not like, i havent been with other girl)...every little things in my life reminds me of her.....and i sumtimes feel tht she also liked me!(but now i dun know)...but i cant get to a conculsion is this all happening cuz of teenage or is it love..plzzz HELP ME!
2006-12-01 00:32:53 · 18 answers · asked by cool_aceofhearts 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S:If yes and if things go in right direction then at wht age shud i marry her, as she is 2 yrs older than me!
2006-12-01 03:31:11 · update #1
I SAY U R REALLY COOL....
and im not joking...
i guess tat this love must be true...
i think tat u should propose as soon as u can...
2006-12-01 00:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by sumu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The teen years are full of stress! Maybe the reason you feel this way is because its safe. She is far away and a relative so there isn't a lot of hope things will work out. The girls closer to your home offer more possibility's,and more stress. I think this will pass as you get older.Until then don't close yourself off to other girls,you don't know what you might be missing.
2006-12-01 01:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by patty m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 17 you should be thinking of nothing but the studies.
By all means go out, enjoy life.
You should put distance between this girl and you. The reason is you are related, most countries do not allow such relation, as far as marriage goes. Even if they allow, you must have genetic counselling. The reason is they will explain the risk of having children that are deformed or retarded or still born.
So cool it.
2006-12-01 01:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this age we may attracted towards other sex, but Iam sure you need to wait some more years, atleast upto 21 yeas age, to realise whether you are in true love or attraction. First try to settle in life, formulate a goal to your life and start moving towards that goal. Then only love may able to stand at a strong point. Dont waste time with dreams. It is the age to realise your dreams.
2006-12-05 15:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by naren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you not think about she 2yrs older, married or not married,
love can't think about age and good girl or bad,
love is a beatiful gift for god, love not see age, colour,
you & your love girl feel love for each other make, do't thinks other view you mind,
2006-12-06 17:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by HARJINDER S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should fall head on for helping each other finding out how much true is the truth that teens f.... each other for getting to a conclusion.
2006-12-01 02:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by akshay s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both the things are true.........
You are in love with her..... that's true !!
But you are being oer-involved into it because you ae a teenager.
:) Same thing happened with me, just 8 months ago !!!
2006-12-01 00:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dear i think u r really in luv with her......
Let me explain u tat wat luv means.....dear wen u luv smebdy the time n the distant never matters....u alwaz keep u r luv loving....u misss dem a lot......n hope to see dem again n again....
& my dear affection means its nothing but jst a crush u say.....n it last for nt more den 6 mnths.....this is the high time dear....find out wats there in her mind....
& hey lst but nt the least Age never matters in Luv......
All the Bst.....!!!!!
2006-12-01 00:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
teens often fall in love with older women
2006-12-06 03:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , It is true. But be carefull!Uncles & Aunty's r Dangerous for teens!!!
2006-12-01 01:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by ogmansur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋