she left me for another guy,i'm here in florida visiting my family,missing her to death,then,last night,i talked to her on the phone, she didn't sound right, kind of funny, i would give her the world, 1st time we were togeather, we were togeather for about 3 weeks,this time (#2)
was only 2 weeks,when i'm not around, she looks for someone to comfort her (so i figured out). and i know it cause that is the same reason why she left me the 1st time. I really love her, i cried all last night, and i feel as though i should walk off a cliff, i don't know anymore, my life hasn't been the easiest lately, and it is hard to get through school, family, and now this, she helped me by coming back to me, and i started to feel "normal" again,i just want to go home,what is wrong with me? do i have issues or something? is it her? what do i do to get her back to me FOREVER? I'm only in high school, but i have this feeling that i can spend the rest of my life with her. i appreciate all the help... thanks.
2006-12-01 00:32:38 · 7 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This may feel like it is the worst that can happen to you but it would have been much worst if you had invested more time into the relationship.
You are both young and experimenting with the concept of what Love is to you. I have learned that some beautiful woman like the attention of the fresh affair and because they are alluring, they can easily attract many to give them these kind of serial relationships.
You sound as if you are a very sensitive and deep person that takes Love seriously. I can relate and it isn't a safe place to be but it is what your are, nevertheless.
Learn who you are and what you need in a relationship and guard against superficial people that may be out for the moment.
Try to take it easy with your feelings in a relationship until you know you are in a relationship with a person that wants to be there with you.
Work on yourself. Mental and Physical development. Read spiritual studies too.
2006-12-01 00:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by moire1111 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, it's probably too soon to be thinking about forever...I know that's not what you want to hear but, it's the truth. I'm not much older than you and I've felt like that two or three times. I thought I was in love and wanted to spend the rest of my life with someone. But, it didn't happen that way. They treated me bad, cheated, or just dated me because they liked the idea of having a girlfriend. But, then they broke up with me or I found out what was really going on and moved on with my life. Then, I was with a guy for a year and realized that those past relationships were only making me stronger for the real thing. If you know for a fact that it is the real thing, then, let her know how you feel. Tell her that you love her and tell her it hurts you when she acts like that. If she's for real, she'll work with you to get through it...and if she doesn't, my advice is that she may not care about you as much as you care about her...
2016-05-23 07:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She left you after only three weeks, twice, and you want her back forever?!? What IS so special about that floozie?
You're better off on your own mate, at least you don't have to worry about who she's cheating on with. Try to find someone who is willing to work for the relationship because relationships need work to get it right.
2006-12-01 00:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by sapfarah.geo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
man to much why is she leaving you and why are you crying that wont help . fix the leaving and stop the crying and maybe you will get a better girl next time there more fish in the sea this wasn't the right one that all
2006-12-01 01:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by thomas a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is WAY immature, and you are ready to commit, It sounds to me.
Why is it that Girls and guys let their emotions make them depressed? She left you for another man, yes that sucks. But!! You dont want a girl who isnt commited to you, and it looks like she isnt. You dont need her, you deserve better.
Dont let this ruin your life.
Yes you can see yourself with her forever, but man, What if its Not Gods plan for your life?
Dont hold on to her, she isnt worth it!
2006-12-01 00:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there will be a fourth and third times as time go by
is best to open your palm and let the bird go free
2006-12-01 00:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SO WHAT
THEN MOVE ON
2006-12-01 00:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋