2006-12-01 00:30:40 · 36 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only the ones that mattered to me and once in a while
I had an e-mail with all the news from my ex on what would have been our anniversary some 7 years after I last heard from her. So it shows I'm not the only one and at least I made a lasting impression on someone
Bit of a double edge sword emotionally though
2006-12-01 00:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Yeah yeah yeah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think about my ex until I recently bumped into him when I was with my current partner.
Me and my partner were on the underground, when I noticed some guy checking me out out of the corner of my eye. I looked up and got the shock of my life when I realised it was my ex. My current partner did not notice my ex winking at me and I really didn't want to speak to my ex (he was an ex for a reason!) felt really uncomfortable and told my partner who practically dragged me over to speak to him.
It was good in a way, because my ex's reaction reminded me why he is an ex!
2006-12-01 00:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by hell_ova_arse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I think about it a lot actually. Probably more than I should since its been years since we were together. It kind of gives me a sense of satisfaction though, because I know that I am better off in life without him, and in addition, I'm better off in life in general than he is. I am still afraid that I'll run into him, and I hope that that never happens. I always feel very bitter and mad when I think of my ex (he cheated on me 4 times before I found out) so I try not to because I am in the best relationship ever! right now. But yes, I do still think about my ex, but in no way is it a positive thought experience.
2006-12-01 00:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I had 2 boyfriends that i was last seeing at college (not at the same time! i am not a cheat! ) I think of them somethimes as i know we have all grown up a bit and changed since then, I often wonder what they are doing and if they ended up doing what they talked about in college and whether things could have worked out...which i doubt as we probably would have grown appart anyway, but i do still think about them as they were nice guys. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and would not want him to know i think of these guys, even though it was only part of my growing up and all that, so they wern't even that serious, i spose some people leave a lasting impression and others dont!
I tried to find them on myspace & friends reunited(just curious). I found one on friends reunited and saw he had a girlfriend, strangely i felt jealous! i cant explain that!! I wonder if they ever think of me.
2006-12-01 00:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by Estee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes somtimes, but not in a positive way. It ended badly and we don't speak anymore. We've seen eachother out once since then. We didn't speak then either. I always wonder how you can love someone so much one time in your life and then ended up...lets use a polite word and say "dislike them" so much in the end! Choose your ex partners wisely lol!
2006-12-01 00:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by Soph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do and I always hate to do it. Sometimes I feel guilty to think of the good times but I believe that it is part of the healing process.
A heart is something that takes alot of work to get whole again. Just now I thought of my fondest moment between me and my ex. We stood by a tree and I had my hands covering her face and every time I opened my hands she would kiss in the air.
So simple but a moment I would never forget.
2006-12-01 00:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by alwyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to some degree yes, but mostly no. It depends on how much of an impact they make on your life. There wasn't much positive impact really, I don't hate my ex btw we are still in contact. If you loved the person and you had lots of respect for them then it's perfectly fine to think about them.
2006-12-01 00:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by nicky_bronx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because I never broke up with anyone in a bad way. I don't fight and shout. I say what I mean end of and I never say anything just to hurt someone. It's obviously gone a long way because my ex's still speak to me.
2006-12-01 00:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i still keep in touch with my ex partner and we are the best of friends now!! my current partner doesn't mind because he knows i dont want to be with him again!!
2006-12-01 01:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes yes yes. But this thinking of exes back fired on me when i asked one of his mates how he was. He had moved to australia. But within a week i got a phone call from the ex who said i was asking about him, he was back.......now we are having a great fling......but again the hurt will return when he goes back!
2006-12-01 00:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by kelley k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋