Im sick of it and want to settle down, whats your thoughts?
2006-12-01 00:25:54 · 35 answers · asked by craig c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you worry about what others "expect"?
I do what I want, and I don't care what anyone thinks of that.
2006-12-01 00:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you...Our culture expects us to sleep around because we're in a time and place where everything is about "get what you want when you want it", patience or self-control is never in the picture anymore. The other thing that's irritating is that everyone supposes that when you get married you should already have in mind that it might not last-have other options open! I'm totally against both of those stands, I want one man for life too. If you decide that's what you're gonna have, you can have it. It's by no means impossible! GO FOR IT!
2006-12-01 00:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by LiRona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our culture doesn't expect us to sleep around, its the idiots with no brains that do.
Why are you asking such a question? If you're sick of it and want to settle down then do just that, why do you need people to tell you that if thats what you want?
2006-12-01 00:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by zanoshi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps a majority of our society is sleeping around, doesn't mean we all have to follow though...the world would be such a boring place if we all did the same things and had the same expectations.
In my experience there aren't enough men out there that tryuly want to settle down, it's admirable that you do...we need more like you :-)
2006-12-01 00:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine_honey69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one who should be able to tell you what to do is YOU! Don't listen to other people! It is your choice no one elses. Do what you want to do, do what will make you happy. If you want to find one person and be with that girl the rest of your life start looking, then go from there! Our culture does not keep us from finding love, it's the people themselves. You can choose to sleep around or not, culture has nothing to do with it. it may take time before you find that one person you want to be with, but believe me, when you find them the wait is well worth it.
2006-12-01 00:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by Poor Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then settle down. What's stopping you? And no, men don't HAVE to sleep around. That's a stupid rule which shouldn't be a rule to start with. Now, if you mean that women don't believe you is because they're biased about men in general.
2006-12-01 00:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Craig-c if that's your avatar then WOW if I wasn't married I'd be banging on your door !!! It's good to hear a man say what you've just said.
I think a lot of parents cut back on some of the values they were brought up with because they thought them too strict. Each generation has been cutting back and now we have a generation of youngsters who from the age of 11 are thinking about sex. It's such a shame.
We need our youngsters to start thinking like you.
2006-12-01 00:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have a choice you know! Just because thats what some people do, doesnt mean you have to. If you meet someone that you truly like then its up to you to make the relationship worthwhile, many people think that maybe someone better will come along so they dont really try with the relationship to make it stronger etc.
2006-12-01 00:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by herbal ashtray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what most women want too. Unfortunately there are those who are promiscuous. Maybe it's where your looking or the women you are attracted to. If your looking in a bar, that's what you'll most likely find. Try the internet or a dating site. This lets you know upfront what a woman is looking for.
2006-12-01 00:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Christina C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try & be a little more positive.Look at it this way,you have total freedom to do what you like,go where & when you like,with no-one to nag you.Happy days!Seriously though,i know from experience how awful lonliness can be,but be very careful when choosing a partner,the right one can make you,the wrong one can break you.I hope you find someone soon.Good luck.
2006-12-01 00:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by michael k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nature makes us men want to sowour seed far and wide. Women on the other hand wanted a provider for the family, hence held back on saying yes to sex. Alas, modern society means that women only need men to provide them with the seed. This is one of the many reasons that we sleep around. My advice to women on my dating website http://www.pulltheboys.co.uk is to wait before saying yes to sex.
2006-12-01 03:18:59 · answer #11 · answered by expert_dating 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋