k so it was the best first date ever, we babbled for 2 hours over coffee and kept gazing at eachother with big grins,and he asked me to go see a movie this weekend before I got out of the car.
Then there was a kiss.
I expected the normal 2-3 days guys usually pull, but he called 19 hours later, to say hi and mention this weekend.
So does that usually mean you're into a girl, or just want to get in her pants?
2006-12-01 00:23:34 · 12 answers · asked by roxy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is smitten. Must have been a great date. Whatever you did to peak his interest, keep it up!! Congrats and good luck.
2006-12-01 00:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are stating that this man is still married you are settling. You are settling for a man that takes his marriage so lightly that he has you sleep over at each others houses and makes no attempt to be divorced FIRST before dating anyone else. He has children involved here and that should be his first priority not a girlfriend on the side. You are basically dealing with a man that is attached. HE is married. You are his mistress and he is using you. Let him keep calling. Dump his *** and change your number. Stop dealing with left overs and find a man that is free and single with no baggage. Why do you even want to deal with this emotionally unstable man with children? You need to ask yourself what is wrong with YOU that you would settle for this. He doesn't have an ex my dear he has a wife? What part of that don't you understand. The way he is treating his wife and children at this very moment by setting a bad example of a husband and father is something you should run from. Why is ok for him to treat his wife and children like this and you are ok with it? He isn't good to his children. He is teaching his children to shack up now and then with a mistress and not be a man of character and deal with your commitment to your marriage. It isn't attractive to call you and hound you into coming back and back and back. It is insecure and unstable!
2016-05-23 07:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. He is not eager to get into your pants if he was he would have tried it on the first date and asked you to go to his home on the second date. Maybe he just read in some mag that he should call in the first 24 hours to make sure that you dont have any other plans for the rest of the week so that it is only him that are his own enemy to impress you and not another guy. He gave you a great first date. Dont start to let your mind get the better of you. And I hope you will enjoy your weekend and your date.
2006-12-01 00:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by alwyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, I wonder what this means. He likes you and is beginning to entertain thoughts of the One Thing that all guys are after in the end. This instinct goes back to the Neanderthal cave days so there is nothing you can do about it. Just be thankful he did not club you on the first date.
2006-12-01 00:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it means hes trying to get in your pants because he would have waited a few days to keep you waiting for him so when he finally did call you would have already been waiting for him and more eager to see and talk to him.
2006-12-01 00:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he really likes you and that he wants to let you know that he is not into playing the "games" that guys typically play. I'd be flattered, he really likes you and sees potential:)
2006-12-01 00:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by MichiganFan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means that he loves you to bits and cant wait to see you again. Mabe he was just eger to talk to you cuz he loves you.
2006-12-01 00:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is into you but to be sure just keep saying no if he hints for sex -- that will sort him out ---- if he wants to really know you then he will keep coming back
2006-12-01 00:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both.
2006-12-01 00:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably means he really likes you.. congratz!
of course since he likes you, you'll probably lose interest.. ;)
2006-12-01 00:25:51 · answer #10 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋