she left me for another guy... i'm here in florida visiting my family.... missing her to death... then... last night... i talked to her on the phone... she didn't sound right.... kind of funny.... i would give her the world.... 1st time we were togeather.... we were togeather for about 3 weeks.... this time (#2)
was only 2 weeks,when i'm not around, she looks for someone to comfort her (so i figured out). and i know it cause that is the same reason why she left me the 1st time. I really love her, i cried all last night, and i feel as though i should walk off a cliff, i don't know anymore, my life hasn't been the easiest lately, and it is hard to get through school, family, and now this, she helped me by coming back to me, and i started to feel "normal" again,i just want to go home,what is wrong with me? do i have issues or something? is it her? what do i do to get her back to me FOREVER? I'm only in high school, but i have this feeling that i can spend the rest of my life with her.
2006-12-01 00:12:15 · 14 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay...you're in high school and clinging this desperately to another person. This isn't healthy. If she's left you twice now, she'll do it again. I know high school isn't exactly easy to get through, and yes, it does make it easier to have someone to go through it with, but a girl like this will only continue to hurt you the longer you are together. You need to rediscover your friendships with other people (excluding her) and move on with your life. I know it sounds cliche' but you do have the rest of your life ahead of you, and since she's obviously not the right one for you, there will be others to come into your life.
Please don't depend on someone else to feel "normal", or to solve your problems for you, this is something you need to do for yourself. Trust me, you will be a much healthier person for having done it yourself. You need to be comfortable within yourself and realize that you are responsible for how you feel, not someone else. Get comfortable within yourself and you will become a much happier person. Good luck.
2006-12-01 00:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel even though i am a girl but trust me the feelings will past. Try keeping busy with school and friends. If she is the right one for you she will realize that and maybe come back into your life. There are many women in this world that are looking for love and friendship. If she needs to leave you for another guy then you don't need her in your life. Even if you got back together what's not saying that she will go behind your back and start seeing someone else..You have to think of everything that has happen but if you still can't get past this point you need to seek a professional opinion. Hope everything works out for you and don't ever give up on life because there is always something better around the next corner.
2006-12-01 08:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by emt_girl_50 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is probably the first girl that you felt so strongly about. Don't allow it to get to you like this. If she cannot be without you for a matter of a few weeks or months without finding someone else. you need to move on. Not all females are like this, and you seem like a very nice person. You deserve to have someone who can be exclusive in a relationship and has the same ideas and values when it comes to being in a relationship. You are young, you will meet many females this is only the beginning, you don't have to be with the first one that comes along for life. So just feel the sadness and move on, find something to occupy your time, spend time with some supportive friends, we all have had our hearts broke at least once. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. You will meet someone else this is not the end, however, I would leave this girl alone, she has some issues that you don't need to be a part of. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-01 08:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes young love is hard, because you don't have a lot of life experiences to compare it to. You sound like you have a lot going for you and a lot of love for that someone special.
This young lady doesn't sound like she is the one. Breaking up hurts! There is no easy way around it. Even if you are the one who initiates the breakup it will still hurt.
Take some time, get some air, and get back on your feet. If you have moved away from where she is permanently, then make new friends where you are. If you are returning to where she is, don't let her keep yanking you around.
If you feel you really need to talk to someone, see a school counselor or a religious leader. That is why they are there! They will keep it confidential, so you don't tell anyone if you don't want to, and you don't have to worry about being embarrassed.
Be strong, and true to yourself.
2006-12-01 08:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by stumpyv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant have anyone forever...its probably your 1st girlfriend and you may think you love her, 3 weeks is a short time to love someone...I was with my exgirlfriend for 3 years...we were getting ready to move in together when she broke up with me...it did hurt yes, but life goes on...life is not easy and let me tell you that you are just in high school and thinking about suicide...once you graduate and move out you will start seeing the real bumps of life and my advise is, to go and talk to her and at least be friends with her...if it doesnt work then keep on going...its gonna be tough but please dont think about suicide...think that there is a better person outhere waiting for you...and you just have to open your arms and look for her...let time pass by and youll see itll be easy...death is not solution...
Live life and love it to the fullest...
2006-12-01 08:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by evanesheaven1985 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel so bad for you. You are so young, I know very well how much it hurts. You have to try to understand that time will heal your heart. If she has to find someone else to comfort her in that short of a time then she has a problem...not you! You deserve better than that, I assure you it will happen over and over again, she has shown her true colors. You can't no matter how hard you try make someone stay with you. Would you want someone to try to make you stay if you didn't want to? There is someone worthwhile and worthy out there you just have to find each other. Good luck!
2006-12-01 08:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by Theresa P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
" DON'T JUMP buddy , God don't do it , think about it ...do you know how many beautiful , wonderful girls are out there that would give their right arm to have a fella love on them the way you say you love on this girl... you fell for this one ... she obviously doesn't appreciate you bud, time to grab life by the b----s and keep your eyes open for new prospects... ( by the way this will likely make her crazy and she'll want you back) but don't fall for it because it will happen again...some girls are weak that way .you'd have to spend the rest of your life BABY sitting her so she doesn't cheat ... do you want that ? NO >>>
2006-12-01 08:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would you want to be with someone who can't be true to you? apparently you need to get yourself some higher expectations
and no heartbreak like that is worth going off a cliff for..lots of other female fish in the sea
2006-12-01 08:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ooww my poor... you are a special guy. she must be knows this too.. and even you love her, her eye is around, looking for new guys... and as you said, you lived some special thing with her,, if she doesnt want ,, let her go away... but if you are brave, fight for it!! regain your true love... dont let everything end so easily.. just do what you should do, and she will be yours again... ;)
2006-12-01 08:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
**** that *****. My friend, you need to go out and meet other women. There could easily be someone better then her, seriously.
2006-12-01 08:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by FeverLust 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋