I am 19 and pregnant. We were engaged b4 we found out and still happily together. What should I expect along the way?? Is labor as bad as every1 says?? That's what scares me and he's like everything will be ok. Will life ever be the same for me again?? Will he still get to live alittle?? Is it wrong to be afraid of childbirth cuz that's how my bff died??
I'm a vegetarian and 5'1 and like 100lbs. Will I ever get my gymnastics/surfing/lax/snoboar... tonedbody back??
Will he eventually become worried??If so when??
2006-12-01 00:03:57 · 10 answers · asked by Amabell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you wonder too much. the important thing here is the health of you and your baby. take care of those issues first.
2006-12-01 00:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how all of this can be overwhelming but everything will be ok. Childbirth is painful but everyone and every birth is different. I am the mother of five and each labor was different, and when I was in labor with my fourth child, I had very little pain. Your life will definitely change but I believe that it will be for the better. Children are a blessing. Both of you will be able to live your lives as long as you work together. Give him time to do the things that he enjoys and he should do the same for you but don't forget to make time for the two of you. I hope that you guys have a supportive family, all new parents need a supporting cast. As far as your body is concerned if you were athletic prior to pregnancy, them I don't see why things should be any different after wards. Good luck, Congratulations and I wish you and your baby the best of health.
2006-12-01 00:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on his maturity level. He's young - as you are. You will both change alot. Some men will not appreciate the importance of fatherhood until later in life - sometimes too late. There is no way to know what will happen in the future - so stop worrying about it, and enjoy the present. You should stop stressing about child-birth too. For starters, it's very rare for someone to die having a baby, and your doctor would be the best person to ask about this. As for pain - yes it is painful. However, when your child is put in your arns, the pain goes away - and you'd do it all again in a second. The pay-off is HUGE. I had my first at that age, and although my marriage fell apart, being a mother is the greatest reward a woman could be blessed with. As for your figure - if you're athletic, you'll get it back in no time. Enjoy your pregnancy.
2006-12-01 00:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you guys were engaged before you got pregnant then everything with that will be fine I do believe so. If he didn't leave you when you told him then you have a good guy. As for what to expect along the way of pregnancy there is alot lol. The labor will hurt but its all worth it when you see that little bundle of joy and after you have he or she it don't hurt like that anymore. Its all worth it.As for life being the same well thats a differnt story lol. As long as you have a good family that would help you when you want to go out by yourself it shouldn't be too bad but usally after you have a kid you don't want to do to much without them but it is good to have a life sometimes too remember that.Child birth is scary I am 8 months pregnant and I am scared I already have 2 and I am still scared but its hard to tell what could happen you know I mean you could wak out side tomorrow and get killed you have a better chance of dying walking outside then in child birth. As for your body as long as you excerise and eat right you should go back to your old weight. Every new parent gets scared they think what if I am not gonna be a good daddy or mommy well you never know until you try right? Good luck and best wishes.
2006-12-01 00:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by love_me_not1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you'll do just fine...you'll Love that baby like you've loved nothing before in this world...just remember ...FIRST comes love,then comes marriage ,then comes baby in a ... DON"T forget to keep lovin on ol hubby, cause sometimes they can get a little jealous of baby...childish yes ,but true, he'll help out more if he knows he's still # 1. ( by the way ,yes it will hurt for a while ,but then the pain goes away and the joy is a thousand times the emotion) By the way I'm the father of six and was there for all of them. watch the tough ol man cry.)
2006-12-01 00:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell u honestly, nothing will be the same. but, you will have something that is do much more worth than life itself. i'm not mother myself, but i can tell u as someone who has friends with kids. i see them everyday and though it is tough, there is some kind of peace and content in their eyes. as for the labor, it hurts, but u have all kind of anesthetic today so why worry? u shouldn't worry about your figure. it will come back if you take care of yourself. and now your boyfriend. if you act as if that child is yours alone, then yes he will be jealous. let him help u as much as he can. he will be a bit clumsy at beginning, but it will come to him, eventually. men are sometimes scared of babies, not because they don't like them but because they think they can hurt them easily. remember, babies are tiny. point is, that baby will be totally depended on you two, and together, you must take care of it. it is proof of your love and not reason for ending it. most likely he will adore it the moment he sees it. just let him take part in everything. he should go to doctor with you, watch the baby grow, plan nursery with you, just do it all together and it will be fine. you two are young, but this is not end of your life. just different beginning. wish you all the best.
2006-12-01 00:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by ina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do people waste other people's time with questions?. i thought you were genuine when i answered your last question but then i checked your others, how can u be still at school when your 19 pregnant engaged with a house of your own????....and your b/f cheats stop being so ridiculous
2006-12-01 00:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by rachie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, no, maybe, no, no, no, no, sure, no... hope I answered all your Qs. good luck with your labor, I heard that it's a *****.
2006-12-01 00:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is Sleazy P. Martini when you need him?
2006-12-01 00:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oye vey....
2006-12-01 01:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋