My husband has always wanted his best friend Jimmyboy to date our 14 year old daughter. Ever since she was a baby he has tried to boost Jimmyboy up to ask her out on a date. Well just the other day Jimmyboy got up the confidence to do this and she has accepted. Jimmyboy is 49 and too old for my 14 year old little girl. I have told my husband that I don't want her dating anyone until she is older. All my husband does is tell me to shut up and mind my own business because Jimmyboy is a good man and will take good care of our daughter. Should I just let them date or should I ask him nicely not to date my daughter?? Help please
2006-12-01 00:01:02 · 42 answers · asked by flushing06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would tell your loser husband, and his loser friend that you will call the police, and have him charged. She is underage, and deserves the right to find someone on her own, in her own time. I would get her THE HELL OUT OF THERE!!!! Her life will be ruined - and as her mother, you have a responsiblity - both legally, and morally, to protect her.
2006-12-01 00:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of your husband and his friend, come on you are her mom step up and do what is right call the police are leave with your daughter she is part of you you carried her for 9 month's and you have know say about what is going on. Nicely my eye tell him in a way he will understand NO and NO mean's NO and then ask him can he say POLICE and RAPE and JAIL PRISON for jimmyboy and your husband are even for you for no stopping all of this then she will have no one. Stand up and let your little girl see her mom is strong in mind and will, because if you let this happen thing's between you and you daughter will never be the same ever. Hate will be toward's you from her for life, so please do what is right a preacher,the law, jail ,prison your chance to choose are your daughter's love what is more important really.I hope her love is and if this is true you are crazy too because you shouldn't had to ask for the answer but your common sense should have told you the answer dang come on 20 with 4 kids and no education but baby's it will happen later and jimmyboy will have a 14 year old and your daughter will be left in the cold. Please pray to God and have faith for help and it will come.
2006-12-01 01:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a VERY normal bikini. I really don't think there is anything wrong with them. They tie, that's just how bikini's work now. And 14 is not that young. She's what, probably a freshman in highschool? I think instead of trying to suffocate her, you should try and be more in touch with her. You should have conversations about what's acceptable behavior and what's not. You should talk to her about safe sex. Not no sex, SAFE sex. I'm telling you, I'm 19 with a 3 year old. And I wouldn't change it for a minute, but if anyone had explained condoms to me, I might not be in this situation. My parents biggest mistake was pretending sex didn't exist. I don't know many people that didn't lose their virginity freshman year. You're better off preparing yourself and her then ignoring the facts. And let her wear a bathing suit. That's the least of your worries. Also, I think you sound more mad at the ex then the bathing suits. I think you should step back and think for a second. Is it really worth all the trouble? It's JUST a bathing suit.
2016-05-23 07:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 14 for piets sake. She should still be playing with dolls not grown men. You dont have to aske him nicely to not date your daughter. You should be telling him and your so called husband that she will not be dating any one, never to mention i 49 year old. Your husband needs is head check, cause there is obviously some thing seriously a miss about him. If I was you Id back my bags, take my daughter I go some wher very far away from my insane husband.
2006-12-01 00:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
slap your husband up across the head and ask him if he is that stupid or what.... there is a thing called rape!!!!! and a 49 should not be dating a 14 year old. she still has school to finish and her life in front of her. Sooner or later she will realize there are guys her age that like her then what is going to happen... What is this 49 thinking of trying to date your daughter...put your foot down on this issue and say there is no way in blank that your daughter is going to date this guy threaten with rape charges your husband my get mad but you need to look after your daughter and make sure nothing happens to her. what if she gets pregnant????14 and pregnant who is going to let her grow up and live childhood while there is the baby....your husband needs to find someone else to date his friend that is his friends age...why can't the guy find someone for himself....This is just missed up and you need to take control for your daughters safety
2006-12-01 00:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by emt_girl_50 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me, Your wish came true. Didnt you just say that when she was little, you wanted her to date this 49 year old man? Well all I can say to begin with is, You asked for it, you wanted it, so deal with it.
But You are insane to think that! Why in the world would you want your 14 year old daughter who doesnt know " What college she wants to go to, what car she wants to drive, cant even drive". She is young, doesnt know any better and what you need to do is step up and say NO!
When she is 18 , she can make the choice of whom she wants to date, but you are HER mother, take control and dont let this man abuse her like that.
SURE , he may be a nice guy, but he is def to old and shouldnt be thinking a relationship with an immature 14 year old girl. i dont mean immature in a bad way, but that she just doesnt know what she wants in life. And she is to young to be tied down to a relationship when she should be focusing on school and friends. Not what man she wants.
2006-12-01 00:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bugger being nice, I'd be slapping both your husband and his friend. How perverted can you get, I mean, GET REAL LADY! Your daughter doesn't want to be seen dead with a 49 year old man! Your daughter is 14 , thats 1-4, and your going to let her date a man whos old enough to be her father? Lady that is gross, and I hope he gets busted for statutory rape. You people disgust me.
2006-12-01 01:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this is even a real question, but if it is, you need to call the police immediately. This is called sexual and emotional abuse. There is absolutely no way in the world that this is even remotely okay. As her mother, you need to keep your daughter safe. Why would your husband want his adult friend to date your teenage underage daughter? Call the police immediately and remove your daughter from this situation. I would suggest that you get yourself and your daughter into counseling or therapy of some sorts. This is absolutely insane. Get out of there, call the police and don't ever go back to him.
2006-12-01 00:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but me as a mom, I'd have my old shotgun loaded and ready for ole Jimmyboy.
Matter of fact, I'd the the double barrel loaded and once ole Jimmyboy arrived, I'd make my husband get in the truck with old Jimmyboy and tell em both to get and NOT COME BACK!!!
Your hubby is telling u your daughter is NONE of your business? Get off the computer and do something lady!!
Make a call to your local authorities. Inform them when old Jimmyboy is in route off your property with your daughter. Have him arrested for being a pedofile! I'd try having the hubby arrested too!
I'm really feeling sorry at this moment for your daughter who has parents like this!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-01 00:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is crazy of your husband. It sounds borderline pedophile, and wrong! Not to mention the age difference. Your daughter is too young to make decisions like that. 14 years old is a ripe old age to think that any male paying attention to you is awesome. Your daughter is your business. I would definitely tell Jimmyboy to bow out NOW!
2006-12-01 01:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by Theresa P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't ask him nicely to do anything, I'd call the police and haul Jimmyboy and your husband straight off to jail. If you are truly a mother of a 14 yr old, you should take your daughter and run with her. Whatever it takes to keep her safe and away from these pedifiles.
2006-12-01 01:01:25 · answer #11 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋