He's English and this is his career so he's being sensible. I'm travelling and the job is temporary for me so I want to have fun now and worry about the future when it arrives. I know he likes me but he's worried about consequences. It seems such a shame to waste this chance of being with someone you like. Is there any way to help him see it that way?
2006-11-30 23:31:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not married. He's very available. I'm not trying to ruin his career. I think with my heart, I know it's not clever. This could turn into something special if given a chance, if not, we'll never know.
2006-12-01 01:12:01 · update #1
No. He's right. Workplace romances rarely end well, and he's being cautious - this IS his career. Why would he risk it for a fling? Move on, and find someone that's looking for what you are - fun. Keep it out of the workplace.
2006-11-30 23:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Why is it a bad idea? Is he just overly ambitious and wants to get ahead? Is it against company policy? Or, is he married? Think about it. There are so many reasons why he said that it's a bad idea. If he says so, then it is. And even if you ever convince him, would you be satisfied with less than 100% of his time?
2006-12-01 07:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Cool Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should try and change his mind.. he's looking for it to be his career.. so don't stand in the way of that.. maybe you should just wait until you leave before trying to start anything with this guy
2006-12-01 07:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...cool guy....he is thinking with the right head. Looks like your man isnt into short term flings and doesnt want to be emotional wreckage once you leave....
Good for him ... i hope you dont change his mind
2006-12-01 07:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by sdbrian92108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it really slow until your time is about up, and then make your move. Once you are no longer both working there, it shouldn't be a problem.
2006-12-01 07:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋