i've been fancying him for years,and i not exactly if he does know or notice or not at all.i have no idea. but recently,he told my friend that he fancies me.but he didnt tell me and he didnt want anyone around me to know.but he told her cos he just had to say cos he couldnt keep it to himself any longer.
he asked me if i could have a relationship with him,but i said no.cos i had my priorities which is to study well.and my parents know that i fancy him.and i know that i love him.
2006-11-30 21:49:46 · 10 answers · asked by lovelicious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've been fancying him for years,and i not exactly if he does know or notice or not at all.i have no idea. but recently,he told my friend that he fancies me.but he didnt tell me and he didnt want anyone around me to know.but he told her cos he just had to say cos he couldnt keep it to himself any longer.
he asked me if i could have a relationship with him,but i said no.cos i had my priorities which is to study well.and my parents know that i fancy him.and i know that i love him.
i dont know cause its like i've being holding back a lot of my feelings,and now,i just cant take it anymore. and yes he has asked me to start a relationship with him,but i rejected him.and now,he's constantly telling me that he loves me and i feel the exact same way.its my parents and my studies that holding me back.
2006-12-01 00:31:36 · update #1
~How can you "allow him to be your boyfriend" if you aren't even sure he feels the same or wants to be your boyfriend?
The only way to know is to ask him, and that's assuming you actually want him. Do your studies come first? Second hand news isn't always factual. You need to find out first hand.~
2006-11-30 21:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your studies. It's the most important thing right now. Having a boyfriend will distract you and possibly cause you drama you don't need at your age. Just go out with friends as a group. Do not get serious with a guy for a few more years.
2006-12-01 05:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still keep your studies your top priority but have a boyfriend for fun times. Can't have all work and no play!
2006-12-01 05:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both ccan be friends and while at that you cud tell him why you're not into relationships now and maybe encourage him to do d same.You just might find your friendship blossom with time.So don't actually blow him off.
2006-12-01 06:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to balance between your study and life and him,if u know u can do it ,no harm in trying with a steady slow approach ,if u cant then let him go ,it could be hurtful to get stuck in between
2006-12-01 05:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by reifguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just let her know that you fancy the pants off of her
2006-12-01 05:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by andrew armstrong 01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b4 making any decision, determine how well u know him, his attitude, and behaviour,dont, do anythng until, he attains the guts to tell it to u directly
2006-12-01 05:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by oh its me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST GIVE IT A TRY. YOU SAID YOU KNOW YOU LOVE HIM!
2006-12-01 06:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by Sandra D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? What's stopping you...
2006-12-01 05:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
2006-12-01 05:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋