basically ive known this girl since late August and we started to become really good mates... then over time (not long) i fell for her and it was eating me up inside, we was getting really close as mates, like she was coming ova sometimes and i was going round hers to watch films have a chat. I told my mates how i felt about this girl and they said i should tell her asap! well after a couple of opportunity's i just couldn't tell her but then i just said to my self, DO IT!, told her and she was just really shocked and like erm ok, she is a really shy girl and im guessing she didnt know what to say. but we carried on talking as normal that night. After a couple of days i began to notice she started to feel abit uncomfortable with me and she seemed a bit off. i was abit down about this for a couple of weeks but then she said to me that she was really sorry and that she felt uncomfortable around me cause we was such good friends. now we are back to normal and good mates,
2006-11-30 13:25:25 · 15 answers · asked by Jon milto360 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as we are back to normal, its all good, we still txt each other alot and see each other quite often.. but i still like her, do you think she will fall for me?
i talk to my friends and they say surely she must like me a little bit, why would she invite me round hers to watch a film, just me, but then i think - well we r good mates, but im not sure,
your guidance is useful :) thanks
2006-11-30 13:27:57 · update #1
thanks for your replies, i just see how it goes and not to loose hope, but also theres a prob coming up soon.... shall i ask her to go with me? or could this make things worse... eeeek
2006-11-30 13:37:31 · update #2
reply to wignuts post:
well i told her while was watching tv and she looked at me like she didn't no what to say and we was both nervous and then it was just silent for a bit and we just continued chatting about normal stuff.
2006-11-30 13:47:00 · update #3
thanks again,
but shall i ask her to the prom? its in a couple of weeks!
2006-12-01 02:19:43 · update #4
Let this be a lesson dude... DONT EVER VERBALIZE THAT YOU LIKE A WOMAN!!!! The fact that you approach her and interact with her is telling enough.
2006-11-30 13:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by AD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you described. I think she likes you as a friend only. For me when I know a guy as a friend; he gets stuck in the friend zone. However, If he told me he had a crush on me, and I had a crush on him but never told him. I would have been happy to hear it. The way your friend reacted shows she likes you as a friend. Keep her as your friend. Go out and get a girl that wants to make you her boyfriend. Unrequited love is just sad. Let the hope of getting together go. Until then you won't be open to someone new.
2006-11-30 16:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Peggy R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there i think she may like you but you're not giving her enough space to get her head together, pull back and let her get her feelings in order. I know it's corny but believe me it is true abscence does make the heart grow fonder also don't be so eager to go running when she calls if you are constantly running to her she may think she's the only girl in yur life if you know what i mean.I'm not sugesting you play games with her...just give her something to think about.Goodluck hun.Hope it works out for you.
2006-11-30 14:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by answer me this..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling happens only when you know the weakeness of the other.People fall for wealth,handsome,sex etc.If you know what she is after and supply the same person ,the falling is inevitable.Bout true love is for the sake of love and not for any thing.It may be at first sight or after several sights.Wait for sometime and see what happens.Publicising your feelings is not good.
2006-11-30 17:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do after you told her how you felt. Maybe she was uncomfortable because you didn't follow up and try to kiss her didn't invite her out on a date.
2006-11-30 13:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue to treat her with respect, because good mates make the best husband. Hang in there mate!! She will love you advantagelly, because you are a wonderful mate.
2006-11-30 13:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she just wants to be friends
seriously she was uncomfortable around you knowing that you liked her then she probably just wants to b friends or she could be 2 shy 2 tell u how she feels
2006-11-30 13:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by catcfh1020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS JUST GIVE HER SOME TIME. IF SHE STILL REMAINED FREINDS WITH YOU AFTER YOU TOLD HER A COUPLE OF TIMES, SHE IS THINKING ABOUT IT, AND SHE PROBABALY DOESNT KNOW HOW IT WILL AFFECT UR FREINDSHIP IF U BECOME LOVERS.
I WOULD SAY DONT ASK HER OUT ANYMORE, RATHER TALK TO HER AND ASK HER WHAT SHE IS THINKING AND FEELING.
GOOD LUCK
2006-11-30 15:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by jiomylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grows some balls and be a man about it and ask her. But grab her and then kiss her before you say anything, Thats what a real man would do.
2006-12-01 10:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she will fall for u but u just need to give her some time just like u said she is shy so she will take some time but she will fall for u dear, dont worry
good luck!!!
2006-11-30 13:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by PriNceSz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋