Basically i haven't had a serious girlfriend ever, im a virgin and i cant seem to get a girl. Does anyone recomend something to me?
2006-11-30 09:11:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok i do talk to girls i always try they always like me as a friend. I just want them to like me as a boyfriend. should i try acting a little tougher do girls like that?
2006-12-01 04:12:48 · update #1
Don't try so hard...the best things happen when you least expect them.
I wasn't looking for anything in particular when I met my boyfriend three years ago, and we're still together today:-)
Don't worry, the right person will come along who will love you for you.
2006-11-30 09:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you wat a girlfriend just for sex? If you're a virgin and you're good looking this is highly unusual. I have never heard of a 21 year old guy being a virgin! I'm not saying it is bad. I would think the first woman you are with will greatly appreciate you. Hey guys guess what? It is a real turn on for us women to find a virgin just like it is for you! Ah, that felt good to say.
2006-11-30 17:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen hunny,
no offense but maybe.... maybe you have a problem with yourself which you haven't noticed yet.
maybe... your slightly geeky or slightly ugly or too shy.
try talking to girls on the net first. and then exchange pics with them. ask them what they think of you
it's nothing embarassing since they are total strangers and you are safe behind the computer.
if they say something negative, that might be your problem.
you can work for that.
once you get confidence, try meeting new ppl.
just go to a lot of parties, beach, church, clubs, bars, and park.
try to pick up girls. if they turn you down, no problem, just keep shooting and you will eventually find someone.
2006-11-30 17:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go where the girls are. Join a class in cooking for example....you will probably be the only man there and its a great line to ask someone over to try the recipe with you. Or get a cute puppy and take it for walks. Be approachable and clean and look happy and well read in current affairs. good luck!
2006-11-30 17:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by dragonrider707 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 21 and really what you need to be doing at this point of your life is to get your ducks in a row--meaning get the education and career of your choice find the location you will like to spend the most of your working life in and the home of your choice too --find out what you really like to do when you are not working THEN find a person that fits your life style to a tee--
2006-11-30 17:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situation. The thing is I just dont feel ready yet. But thats not your case. If you really want to find someone, all you have to do is go for it! Go out and meet new people. =)
2006-11-30 17:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by Broken ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly I am 19 and I just got my first real g/f...I am sure some of it was luck because this girl is really awesome...but basically you have to make a move..you have to show a girl that you are interested, and from that they can make a decision whether they want to see you are not...girls like nice guys...they do...but they want a guy who is going to be a guy...you have to show them that you are interested in sexual stuff as well as them...and you have to flirt...because if you dont show them they are not going to know that you like them
2006-11-30 17:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should realize that God has a plan for you and will bring you the one in His time. Just have faith in Him.
If you keep looking for love, it will never come.
It comes when you least expect it.
Trust me, it happened to me.
Enjoy the single life while it lasts.
You don't need that much drama right now.
Besides, you've got your whole life ahead of you.
You're still young!!!!
You should worry about this when you're 30-40.
2006-11-30 17:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should try to be more socialable!! Talk with girls you see! Get out and do something about it!! If you dont do anything then you'l be dateless and misserable
2006-11-30 17:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by XxBrwnEydCutieXx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. keep your eyes open because you may just not know when girls are giving you signals. Don't try so hard and practice on your flirting skills
2006-11-30 17:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋