before i had sex with my bf i found out that he had condyloma which turned out to be an STD. i did not get it but he got it from the girl that he has slept-his ex-before me. i did a PAP smear and it did not turn out that i have it which is good.if this were to happen to you what would you do? how would you react and would you stop having sex or what actions would you take? would you still care for the gf/bf the same way or different? would your life be changed or the same? would you be scared or okay?i would like to hear and see what you guys out there have to say. thanks
2006-11-28 20:19:29 · 9 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
and by the way he went to a doc and he is okay. i dont have it and i also went to a doc to check up on it.
2006-11-28 20:33:21 · update #1
also there are no outbreaks or anything and the STD is no chlamydya but CONDYLOMA!
2006-11-28 20:37:51 · update #2
Things happen in the past, I'm sure there are things that you have done in your past that your not proud of. STD's are a very common thing now a days so anyone sexually active is prone to it. I wouldn't let it interfere with your relationship, its history, its gone. Just be safe, use protection and have fun.
2006-11-29 11:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... It would be hard to decide because if you really love each other... There are a lot of possible solutions because there are protections as we call them like condoms for men... and even for women... Basically, It would be hard for the guy because it is hard to find another girl who can love you and you will love... However, it is your decision whether you find the solution together, which is a little risky... Or play safe and break up... The decision is yours t which path you choose... May I remind you that the easiest path is not always the right one, and the right path is not always the easiest one...
2006-11-28 20:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by Zen Azura 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would definitely be different towards my boyfriend. I would not want a std under no circumstances. It sure is a blessing that you never got it. I would count my lucky stars and move on. Granted, it wasn't his fault, he got it elsewhere, but I would not sleep with him again. So many fish out there w/o std's. I would find it hard to trust anyone again.Very scary!
2006-11-28 20:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
chlamydia can be treated & cured- below is a link to info.
if I were in that situation, I would ask my bf to be treated & continue the relationship if I believed he was faithful- best of luck to you
http://health.msn.com/encyclopedia/healthtopics/articlepage.aspx?cp-documentid=100063350
2006-11-28 20:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get your bf to go and see a doc and get cured.
its not life threatening.
2006-11-28 20:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt have sex till he's clear
2006-11-28 20:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by welhungaswel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you 'd better stop having sex with him
its your soul protect it
2006-11-28 20:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by greatmambo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he did not cheat so what is the problem.....get cured and him too
2006-11-28 20:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should break it off with him, this proves he sleeps with skanks.
2006-11-29 00:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by duc602 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋