Do a lot of couples have oral sex, it seems weird to me. i thaught it was only something you seen in adult films. I have no idea how to do it or where to begin. i dont want to embarass myself.
Is this okay, or out of the ordinary?
2006-11-26 10:44:35 · 18 answers · asked by Lanalee R 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
You don't have to do anything you don't want to do ..tell him no and if he can't accept NO he is not any kind of boyfriend ...tell him he needs to RESPECT you as his girfriend and take it from there be smart and respect youself...luv kara
2006-11-26 10:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It is a normal thing for couples to do. It is also perfectly normal to say "Nah, that ain't my cup of tea", so don't let yourself be pressured into it. Always remember, there is no 'normal' in sex. There is what you are comfortable doing with your partner, and that's all that matters. Some women love it, some women hate it. It's all normal.
You begin by telling your partner that you're not quite certain what to do, and could he help you out and tell you how he likes it. Then give it a go. Generally speaking, you would treat his penis the way you would a lollypop or a popcicle.
Unless you are monogomous and both have been tested, you should use a condom for oral sex, as almost all of the STDs can be transmitted orally. Flavored condoms can be used if you're worried about the taste, or unlubed condoms and some chocolate sauce.
2006-11-26 15:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kiari 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes alot of couples do it but if you are not comfortable with it,leave it alone.
Don't let anyone push you into anything you don't want to do.
Keep in mind that today with all of the STD's out there,oral sex is just like genitalia sex and you can get STD's,venereal warts, herpes of the mouth etc.
Leave it alone for now until you are more comfortable with it and are with a partner that is the one you are probably going to stay with for the rest of your life.
There is alot to be said about staying a virgin whether you are male or female.
2006-11-26 10:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by Just Q 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I appreciate you a lot for each thing you printed ^^^ i'm a Christian lady too, and that i rather appreciate that you're status your floor and saving your self for marriage! you'll want to not have oral (or any kind) of sex with your boyfriend, so that you want to allow him down difficulty-free and make it clean that you at the instantaneous are not tender with having sex. If he rather loves/cares about you, even even if that's his birthday, he ought to appreciate your values and under no circumstances attempt to make you experience undesirable about it. sturdy success, and that i will pray for you :)
2016-11-26 23:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of couples have oral sex, alot of the time as foreplay. However if you are ever uncomfortable with anything, your boyfriend does not have the right to pressure you, he should respect your decisions. As far as not knowing how to perform oral sex, this website tells you how http://www.sexual-health-resource.org/oral_sex.htm.
2006-11-26 10:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lachelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal from my experience the older a person gets the more normal oral sex and other sexual experiments will become more normal and acceptable. Do like most women and tell him to do you first that way if he wont do it you dont have to do him
2006-11-26 11:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you like. Don't worry about being 'normal'. But don't be afraid to try new things--you might actually enjoy it. Your choice. Personally I can't stand being pushed into anything I don't feel comfortable with, especially by a loved one.
2006-11-26 10:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oral sex does not have to be mandatory... there are many couples who dont do it.
i hate to insult your intelligence, but judging by your spelling im going to guess that youre pretty young. that being said, theres an increasing trend for younger couples (teens, etc) to have oral sex, because they see dont see it as sex because there is no intercourse involved.
also, you can give/receive STDs through oral sex. use a condom if youre going to do it.
lastly, dont do what youre not comfortable with. if you give in just to make him happy, youll regret it.
2006-11-26 19:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by stephie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try it once the more into it you get the more pleased he will be it's not out of the ordinary but if you try it and don't like it then don't do it
the underside of it right below the tip causes a lot of arousal
remember if you do this you can push the subject on him for your sake
2006-11-26 10:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by ertw t 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not ready to do it don't do it. If you are yes alot of ouples do it and it does feel good. Pretend it is a popsicle or a lolipop if that gives you an idea on how to do it.
2006-11-26 11:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by missee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the women I've been with do it. I think it is a very common thing but people just don't come out and say I just gave my bf a bloow job.
2006-11-26 10:47:53 · answer #11 · answered by super stud 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋