My daughter will not sleep throughout the night then ends up in my bed .Can anyone advise me?

Answer 1

I would sugjest when she gets out of bed to comfort her and then put her back into bed and explain to her that she is a big girl now and she needs to sleep in her big girl bed. Then leave the room wait a few miniutes if she gets out of bed place her back in there and do this routine for a few weeks trust me it works

Answer 2

~She only ends up in your bed if you let her. Don't. Close the door. If that doesn't work, simply return her to her room when she sneaks into your bed. You don't say how old the kid is, but it doesn't really matter. If she ends up in your bed under her own steam, she's old enough to be locked out of your room. If she ends up in your bed because you are bringing her there, then you are a fool for doing it. Kids need to know you're there for them, but they need there space and to learn some independence, too. The more you coddle, the less worthy a person your daughter is apt to become. All the child psych books confirm this. Check them out. You are doing (possibly irreparable) damage by letting this continue.

Answer 3

This is going to be hard work for you, but when she comes to you bed, don't let her settle. Don't say anything - don't be angry with her - but take her back to her own bed, and tuck her in. Then go back to your bed. At the start, she will come straight back to you bed. Do it again. Keep doing it - and be totally patient - don't lose your temper.

Eventually she will learn that she will not be allowed to sleep in your bed.

Answer 4

How old is your daughter??
When she comes to your bed just quietly walk her back to her own, tell her she's a big girl and needs to sleep in her own bed.
If you keep allowing it she will continue, your telling her it's o.k. by letting her stay.

Answer 5

You need to gently break this pattern. Get to your book store and check out references appropriate to her age group. There are many good books that will give you sound advice. You can choose which method to try based on your family situation. However, be alert for signs of emotional distress if she is older. This could be an anxiety reaction stemming from some traumatic experience.

Answer 6

you can sleep in her bed till she fall asleep for a quite some times so that she knows that this is her bed. i m in this phase, and i think it will be easier a little later.

Answer 7

When she wakes up, lie with her in her bed until she falls asleep, then go back to bed

Answer 8

Let her in and stop worrying about it! There's nothing wrong with that! Your children will grow away from you soon enough. Let them stay close as long as they will!