i slept with my ex and then didnt hear from him in ages so i just text him saying that i wanted to forget about him cos he was only after one thing and that i was hurt enough, did i do the right thing
2006-11-23 23:29:24 · 16 answers · asked by sarah_squidge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely. Next time he contacts you, invite him round for 'a coffee', let him get comfortable and when he least expects it and thinks that he going to get some action, grab a heavy object closest to you and smack his nuts with it.
Then boot him out and tell him that you are now completely over him!
2006-11-23 23:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did that night mean to you? if you felt that it had ignited a flame then you did the right thing that is if he led you on. if it dnt mean smething special then yeah you did the right thing coz now he knows that it meant something to u so he might use this tactic each tyme he wants something from u.
what you could have done was ignore sim as well not try to get in touch with him for any reason and just fade into the background. now that u did dont try contact him he'll think ur so desperate or he might think ur a gal who likes hitting the sack anytime.show him you have dignity dont contact him and even if you feel u cant hold back,dont mention what u did and avoid that subject like the plague
2006-11-24 07:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by valery p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you want closure. I had an ex that was cousins to my best Friend & he would tell her that he could get any girl that he use to date to sleep with him again& again at a drop of a hat.After being a victim a veiw times I never went back wards in relationships agian. You need to put closure on this guy soon for your own self esteem.
2006-11-24 07:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel that you have not done the right thing? The guy is not bothered about you and you just stated the same to him. If at all you meet him any time just say the same things that you have in your mind to him. Dont hesitate to express yourself when it comes to relationships. Either you can save them or you can spoil them. If the guy feels guilty enough, he might come to you just to say sorry. Hand him one tight slap.
2006-11-24 07:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by bloopsieBLOB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did do the right thing, if he texts you back even tohugh it will be hard dont text him back! Try an ignore him! You can do so much better than him! Move no Girl!
2006-11-24 07:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt worry about it now he doesnt sound like to be blunt gives two sh*ts about you. so ditch the prick. and move on its hard at first always is and it wont get any easyer the second time round too. so find a nice fella and dont bother texting him never no he might come running back and if he does tell him to GO F**K HIM SELF! good luck pet take no sh*t!
2006-11-24 07:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by dragontears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! of cos u did the right thing. It's obvious tat he's after ***! don't care about him! move on! Plenty of guys left for you to choose!
2006-11-24 07:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by bonkified_fl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did the right thing. You might have given him what he wanted but you learned from your mistake.
2006-11-24 07:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running from your problems always seems to help... Maybe he is just confused or needs to pull himself under control. Just don't sleep with him again!
2006-11-24 07:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by Casey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to forget about someone, you don't send them a message saying "I'm forgetting about you".
2006-11-24 07:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋