boyf was messin around on my laptop, i told him not to mess with it as i hadnt backed up my files yet or saved my course work onto cd but he didnt listen and went on it anyway and rolled it back to a diff date and lost some of my work.he said sorry and that hed try and get it back for me. i said'no just leave it alone' and i put da lid down and we went shoppin. we came back he lifts da lid up and says da laptops broke . isaid 'no its just hibernating' and went to cook food, then i heard 'oh ****' he didnt listen to me and nw hes wiped everything off it. not just my documents but windows xp and microsoft and everything. i took it to a comp place but they cnt get anything back. i knw he didnt mean to screw it up but i did tellhim to leave it alone and he didnt listen. im so upset.
2006-11-23 23:26:20 · 22 answers · asked by kitten 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi hippie. comp in work keeps playing up (we have dial up so its really slow) so heres my email. novak_designs@yahoo.co.uk
please could you send me an email later. thanks
2006-11-23 23:42:52 · update #1
dont let him touch the laptop
2006-11-23 23:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Your laptop was obviously very important to you, think of what your boyfriend owns that is of the same importance to him, then you know what you have to do, unfortunately wreck it!!!
You might not have it in you to be so mean, but after all why didn't he just leave it alone when you asked, it may teach him a lesson, and make you feal more satisfied for paying him back, sometimes revenge is sweet.
2006-11-24 07:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by mazza999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get a new boyfriend, and the reasons are as follows.
He showed absolutely NO respect for you or your property.
You asked him NOT to touch your computer and he ignored you. Clearly he had NO idea what he was doing, yet he didn't care.
He will no doubt continue this pattern of behaviour - is this what you want for your life?
You shouldn't have to create a password to keep him out - he should respect your wishes.
Those suggesting you shouldn't let him touch it didn't read your question - you tried that!
2006-11-24 07:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Gillian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is punishment enough that he feels like s h i t for doing what he did to the laptop. I am sure every time you look at him, he feels guilty all over again. But if you really wanna punish him, be REALLY nice to him. Ya know. Sweet and loving. It will make him feel even worse, and make him wonder what you are up to! Men like to pride themselves on the fact that they know woman are predictable. It blows them out of the water when you do something completely the opposite of what they expect. (Sweet and loving, instead of cold and angry - get it!)
2006-11-24 07:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would personally B*tch Slap him first, then kick him in the nuts with the pointiest pair of shoes that I own, several times, finally I'd kick him out!
2006-11-24 07:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not the easyest thing to break a computer now adays so i think he was planning on breaking the thing. computers now adays there aint just some key you push and shut the thing down. if he really did do this on accident hes a cluts and if i was you i wouldnt drive in a car with him he sounds like hes accident prone. next thing you know youll be in the hospital and he will be wlaking around buying you flowers your allergic too.
2006-11-24 07:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
create a password for your laptop and keep it secure and dont let him use the laptop when you're not around..
Dont punish him now if he didnt mean to cause the problem ,just dont let him to use the laptop and it will be a good lesson for him .
2006-11-24 07:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a program that will retrive lost data so why your computer shop fellow says they cant get any thing back is not correct try another dealer, or ask me if i can help i will be glad to try for you
use my 360 to mail me
2006-11-24 07:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by arthur3home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Told him straight in his face to hear and take you seriously next time, from NOW ON. Your bf doesnt value what you said, it will lead to a bigger prob in the future when it goes to bigger issues
2006-11-24 07:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa! i would've gone MENTAL! i would've not EVER have spoken to him, he is disrespectful, you asked him 2x he still pushed on, what if that was your life he was toying with, like, maybe you asked him to slow down the car because he was doing something dangerous. how old is he???!!! he sounds like a toddler, a seriously erratic one, trapped in an older person's body. lose the bleeder.
2006-11-24 07:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by Wisdom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make it very clear that you're angry at him and reap the benefits of his grovelling, there's nothing that can be done about it now so ya may as well make the most of him trying to make it up to you!
2006-11-24 07:29:29 · answer #11 · answered by Ally 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋