so im in middle school and i just got my first boyfriend...he cheated with my bestest friend...
i mean...any advice to say to them...or you know...what should i do...cuz i went home crying right after i dumped him...and now they are going out....what should i do?
2006-11-23 22:57:15 · 15 answers · asked by volley_ballchick815 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is not your best friend, and he is a jerk, find better for yourself
2006-11-23 22:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by toys_em_us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go..... he did you wrong, you know that, he knows that, and youre best friend knows that. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Dont let this relationship mess up your relationships to come. Also sit down and talk to youre best friend and ask her why she did you wrong. But what ever you do dont try to break up their relationship, or try to win this guy back. Just think if you were your "best friend" and you stole her boyfriend, even though she didnt do any right dont ruin it for her.
Hope this helps.....sorta
2006-11-24 11:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by Kangaroo guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok....When a friend goes out wit your boyfriend they are not a true friend.I mean even after ya'll do break up NO FRIEND HAS PERMISSION to go out wit each other ex'z... and dont cry ova no boy,If he could cheat let him cheat... you'll live.... and HIT HIM UPSIDE THE HEAD WIT A ROCK... cuz if muh friendz did dat to me... i wouldnt talk to them or him.. cuz once u do that u lose trust,honesty,and a very good friend ship IT'Z YOUR CHOICE
2006-11-24 07:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know even if it hurts you have to get over it. If your ex-boyfriend and your best friend really like each other you can't interumpt their love 'cause you must know that there maybe are a lot of guys out there for you so look on the bright side 'cause you can do it.
2006-11-24 07:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh ouch. The best thing to do is get a new best friend. A true friend would not do that to you. Not all guys are goint to do that, try to keep that in mind. As far as what you should do, cut them out of your life and party like a rock star!!
2006-11-24 07:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by 32nkikin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry it out and let time do the healing.
They obviously are not worth your time and friendship.
Engage in some other productive activity and maybe ul hook up with someone.
And dont forget, play it cool.Be beautiful, that the best revenge.
2006-11-24 07:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by globiaeon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sucks when stuff like this happens, its unfair and there isnt really anything that anyone can do about it...just try forget about him...maybe have a look out for a new cute boy to crush on...as for your friend let her know how much shes hurt you...might be good to reassess your friendship with her...true friends are loyal
2006-11-24 07:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by ~lovelovelove~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him would be the easiest word we say. but i know what you feel. it's hard to forget to whom we love. but think of it that you will suffer from him.
love is the problem, love is the cure.
you know it is not a mistake but it is part of what you have learn about love.
god has noticed you that you are a good girl and he made it that this guy is not the right man for you.
god has many plan for us.
2006-11-24 07:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are young! just find a different boy, a better, more handsome one, and show him off. and get over the old guy. a friend who does that sorta thing is a tramp and not a real friend
2006-11-24 07:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the same case with me but slightly different i am not sure that he likes me or not i hv not proposed him and i guess he loves someone else
oh.......... :( ...................... that's my story let me solve ur story
i know it's difficult but dont love him 2 much watch him every single step then judge if he's correct go for him but in this case the mond and the heart both hv 2 work together :)
BEST OF LUCK
COOL GIRL JENIFER
(U R THE ONLY GIRL WHO KNOWS MY STORY)
2006-11-24 07:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by CoolGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be it is a lesson to you in life and may be god dont want you to be with him so move on u find some one better than him and dont hurry every thing will come in its time
2006-11-24 07:06:55 · answer #11 · answered by lover boy 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋