Ive been single now for 8 months having come out of a serious 6 year relationship. i have a few guys chasing me and asking me out on dates which is nice. however, there is this one guy who has been chasing me for years!even when i was in my previous relationship which he knew about. we have kissed and he says he likes me yet he wont ask me out on a date.he just sill chasing me!
he knows that i like him and i have asked him when is he going to ask me out but he seems really laid back about it all, and typically, this is the one guy that im really interested in!
how can some guys contact you all the time and ask you out all the time and yet, this one guy, who know that i like him,is just so chilled?is he afraid of rejection even though i asked him when was he going to ask me out?
2006-11-23 22:26:46 · 13 answers · asked by Special Lady!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is what i would do ask the guy straight what he wants and if its not you then go for someone else..but that just what id do...erm...just see if he gets jealous when you start dateing other guys this should tell you whether or not he wants you xx
2006-11-23 22:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always the way isnt it?!The 1 you actually really like is always the hardest to get hold of!! I think maybe thats why we always like them ones so much,maybe its because its a bit of a challange!!
He might be a bit scared but the likley hood is that hes just playing hard to get or is just so laid back about the whole thing that he doesnt see a need to rush!Dont worry he will ask you,just be patient and maybe go out with the other man on dates in the mean time!!Its all good practice and will probably drive him mad and maybe hurry him up a bit if he nos you arnt sitting at home waiting for him!! x
2006-11-23 22:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is the type of guy who wants to see if he can make you like him and when he finds out that he does he plays so cool and don't wanna make any effort to move further
i've been in this situations before,and all i can say is play cool too,i know you like him,but just wait don't ask him again this question just play along as he does and you'll see he will grow interest in you and finally ask you out believe me
2006-11-23 22:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by ROMY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest to him that you want to go out with another guy, that will get him interested. Guys are only interested if they think they are missing out on something, I have the same problem. My 'laid back' guy left it too late though. The someone else turned out to be the guy for me. Don't hang around waiting.
2006-11-23 22:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing hard to get and it's working.
Here's what you do.
He thinks you will keep putting all these other guys off as you are waiting for him to ask you out.
So...this will drive him nuts !!
You agree to go out with one of the oter guys.
When he sees that you aren't prepared to wait for hm and that he's not the only guy you can see, he'll jump in before you get too serious with the new guy.
2006-11-23 22:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is more interested in the thrill of the chase, he knows that he has you hooked and he's enjoying that. maybe try playing hard to get with this one, fight fire with fire...athough if you dont like that then just confront him and say "hay look, if you want me then just ask me out if not then leave me alone!" maybe that'll give him a wake up call
anyways goodluck!
2006-11-23 22:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by ~lovelovelove~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because he KNOWS u like him, and he enjoyed the chase more then he enjoyed the ideaof being around you.... let him go and go for someone who will be after you with no games attached
2006-11-23 22:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by James A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start ignoring him. If he thinks his opportunity is going to slip away then maybe -if he was ever really serious- he'll finally ask you out.
2006-11-23 22:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by Dark 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He simply adored you , thats it . He is busy with some other person , so leave him alone for a while and keep your self busy at this point .
2006-11-23 22:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats life
2006-11-24 01:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋