when you are out with your friends and a group of guys come up to chat to you for argumets sake lets say there are four of you and four of us guys ok
do you instantly suss out which is the quiet one? which is the loud one? which is the one who is mysterious? are we really obvious is what im trying to say I guess
and also say there are 2 forward guys who are being very flirty and one guy who is being flirty but a bit les than the other two and there is one who is being flirty in spits and spats
is the one at the back (the one whos being the least flirty out of the 4 guys) the one who intrigues you the most or is he the one who you think wtf are you doing?
and bear in mind the the kind of environments I mean are in Clubs, bars and in eateries (even something like KFC) say in the afternoon when its quiet
how quickly do women suss out what a guy is like when they first meet/talk/flirt with him?
2006-11-23 22:15:38 · 11 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok.
Well first of all, my friends and I decide if they are bums or if they are safe to be around. That is usually pretty easy to determine.
Then, and i can't speak for them, but I can usually spot the shy one the loud mouth pain in the a*s etc.
Usually it 's the shy guy who flirts the least. I tend to feel sorry for him as i tend to be shy too and know he 's embarrased.
Then there might be a guy who thinks he is funny and a real flirt but it is obvious he is trying too hard. I think this is usually because he feels he isn't as good at it as the other two guys and he is trying to be someone he is not.
They other two guys if they are really smooth and ...well chancers I figure have had plenty of practice. I tend to see them as untrustworthy and they are obviously the types who just chat up random women in the street, restaurant.
So, the guy that is really shy is the one I find intriguing but that is because he is obviously being himself, he's not trying to be something he's not and he's not a chancer who does this all the time.
I can't spaek for my friends as they all have their own preferences.
2006-11-23 22:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A girk cann suss you out in seconds and she knows what she likes and silent are somen girls type and flirty are others the more flirty the less serious a guy is as he probably fancies himdself more then the girls
2006-11-24 06:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Black N White Honesty 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
usually it is pretty quick, there is that instant spark. Sometimes it is the quiet ones that set the biggest flames. A lot of times, the overly flirty guys are hard to believe and just come across as sketchy.
2006-11-24 06:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by 32nkikin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suss them out one by one and it doesn't matter if he's quiet or loud with his person... I'd bring each one of them out on the dance floor to do a little bump and grind...
2006-11-24 06:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by sexton 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like the quiet ones personally....try to stay clear of the loud flirty ones as they are more likely to be players.....
i am intuitive so i would suss it out quickly, but that comes with age and experience....
men are generally simple, yet endearing and lovable creatures.....
2006-11-24 06:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its difficult to judge, i would probably talk more to the louder one as the quieter one...although maybe more intriguing obviously seems like he might not be interested, although the ones who talk the most seem like they are too full of themselves and i would imagine they are a bit male slaggish, so id be put off.
2006-11-24 06:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by herbal ashtray 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
nah, the loud, obvious type would attract me tho most..but saying that..generally the quieter guys are who id settle for. mainly becuase lads who are forward havent just been forward to you... your never the first girl and ur def not gonna be the last - they come across less trustworthy, and its obviously part of their personality to throw themselves at a bunch of girls, which in a way is quite unsettling if you did generally fancy one of them.
2006-11-24 06:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by amy_uk2k1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it takes time to get to know somebody but on first impressions the guy at the back usually gets ignored by everyone as he tends to be the more shy.
2006-11-24 06:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I can not I just hope that the one I pick or picked me is cool but i like to go for the layed back one not the ones that seem to be just for the sex
2006-11-24 06:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by yomom 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
look into their eyes more to the point... and the quite ones are the worse ones .. something to hide.. the louder ones normally are them selves.
2006-11-24 06:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋