My girlfriend of 2 years always accuses of cheating on her when i repeatly tell her that i have not and will never cheat on her. She even gets really jeolous when I compliment other females, just because I like someone elses personality, she thinks I want to be with them and not her anymore. I mean if I wanted to be with someone else, I would be. Knowing how she feels about me, I wouildnt lead her on. I really do love this girl, but she puts me through hell when she thinks I am sleeping with other females, even when I am at work . Why doesnt she trust me at all??!!I keep telling her with no trust, there is no relationshiop, and yet she tells me she loves me and keeps doing this!!!She has told me her ex boyfriends were pigs who slept around behind her back but I am nothing like this. Is she insecure or what? Her jeoulosey has gotten so bad that it lead to physical abuse towards me, and mental abuse as well. I just want her to love me the way i love her. and maybe we would get along....
2006-11-23 22:00:44 · 10 answers · asked by jen w 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At one point I even asked this women to marry me, I introduced her as my wife. Ive done everything i could possibly do to make this women know that i loved her and she treats me like a total jerk, like one of her ex boyfriends.
2006-11-23 22:03:27 · update #1
DO you think asking her to get mental help will make her flip? I think she has some personality disorder,. One minute she is kissing me, and cuddling with me and all the sudden she turns into this mean person, then to normal again> what the hell is going on in thsi chicks head?
2006-11-23 22:16:38 · update #2
I am not leaving this women, I just want a solution and want her to really believe i love her. How do i tell her she needs help? Our past was a nightmare. I am looking to work this relationship out
2006-11-23 22:21:43 · update #3
Women do "trust" about as well as we do "talking about our feelings". It's just the way it is.
2006-11-23 22:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah yes, this sounds familiar. I went through a similar situation with a girl for a bit longer. To answer your question, yeah it probably is insecurity at work, and I'm sorry to say this but "You can't make her love you and you can't fix her". If she doesn't trust you, then there isn't a thing you can do to change that. Her getting over her insecurities is going to be an uphill battle for her, and probably not going to start until after, I'm sorry to say, she's dumped you (Oh Lord how I know this). You're working really hard to put up with all this but it's not worth it because a relationship takes two people punching the clock, not just you. She's going to get stronger one day, and she's not going to reward you with the life you deserve with her but a nice "It's been fun but I've met Mr. X". Trust me on this, at the 2 year mark for me, I was hearing and saying basically the same thing that you've heard/ said. Look man, even the behavior patterns you describe, I've been through. Look at it from this perspective, why should she get help, you're the one who is cheating on her. She already thinks she's right and nothing will change that. It's not easy to say or accept but get out now unless you're in to masochism and like getting hurt.
2006-11-27 11:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by Che G 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Damn, dude, that's pretty friggin harsh. Well I would suggest counseling and MAJOR professional help for this chick. She's obviously wacked out. Personally, if it was me, I'd probably cut my losses and leave. Physical abuse? Mental abuse? And you've done nothing wrong? I'd say screw it and leave. There are other less twisted females out there. It will hurt terrible but do you really want to put up with THAT for the rest of your life?
2006-11-23 22:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2015-02-06 11:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's very insecure. Makes you feel like you're being locked in a cage doesn't it? Paranoia and Love move in opposite directions.
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2017-01-03 13:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave her obviously there's no trust in the relationship plus physical and mental abuse. It doesn't sound like love to me
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