What are the benifits of waiting til' marriage to have sex?

Answer 1

What is sex to you?
If sex is solely for recreational purposes, without much responsibility for its ensuing consequences, you will never understand the benefit of waiting for a holy union to have it.

If sex is a commitment between 2 persons, a beautiful act of love that you and your spouse undertake responsibly, knowing that it comes with consequences, then only you will be able to truly understand the benefit of waiting.

You decide on the benefits.

Answer 2

assuming that you also follow the belief of not using any forms of contraceptive then i suppose the experience can be profoundly simple, non-traumatic or worrisome.
You don't have to worry about STD or unwanted pregnancy. You don't need to be tactical about 'pulling out' etc. If you can demonstrate the self control to wait until marriage for sex then perhaps you have already achieved a level of intimacy with a woman that i personally would envy you for.
Often we are goaded of one another for having play sex or emotional displays but lacking the obvious undertone of commitment. Sex is actually a step down from romance as it is commitment to action. If there has not been any earlier and more base commitment of defantasizing in commitment to action such as a marriage then each participant should be absolutely clear about what is to gain from such an act of indulgence before committing to perform such actions towards one another. I have been both the manipulated and the manipulator. I wish things were different in my life, but I am stronger for having survived my lessons.

Answer 3

Well the benefits are with out end. God blessed he union of to virgins. Satan has no weapons to use against the marriage and there are only two people in the marriage bed. Men feel they are no being compared to other men. Woman have no one to compare there men to. And the vise verse.
The fact that a wife and a husband keep themself holy before marriage is also a good way to measure there will and commitment to keeps Gods desire first in there lives. Thus these persons will do well in life because they are God centered.
Another benefit is the knewest of Marriage in the first few years
will be adjusted to more smoothly. Also as the two people grow in there love God will bless the womb and fruit will come forth.
Men and woman who are pure when intering into marrage have not been abused by other sexual pardners and thus they are more tenderhearted and more loving.
You do not carry the bagage of your past relationships into the marriage.
You do not have any spiritual ties to people that you should not have spiritual ties with.
You are scantified before God and your mate. You will be blessed coming into the marriage, during the marriage and beyond. Godly fruit.
The list goes on and on.
Also GOD closes the womb of those who engage in sex outside of marrage. And the state of the million of woman that are barren is proof of that even today. God in his word states he makes himself the enemy of those who are sexualy immoral.

Answer 4

Did you ever open a Christmas present before Christmas morning when you were a kid? What was it like to have to open it again on Christmas morning? Was it different from opening a present that you didn't know what was in the box you were opening Christmas morning? Which present was more fun to open on Christmas morning?

There are even bigger benefits. For someone who's born again who truly loves God, when that person falls prey to temptation to have sex before marriage, it's always a major bummer because immediately afterward, he or she feels the guilt and shame of the offense that the act was against God - big time. So the biggest benefit of waiting until marriage for the child of God is freedom from guilt and no sense of the separation from God that sexual sin brings.

Answer 5

One benefit is that statistically, couples who wait till marriage are much less likely to divorce.

The same goes for couples who don't live together before marriage -- couples who "shack up" before marriage are far more likely to divorce. So the stats say.

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Answer 6

you have all this built up anticipation....you are starting a new life together and having sex together for the first time would be like something very special today.....everyones already tried it...its like someone made you a cake but you took a piece of it before it was time for it to be cut and now you want have anything to look forward too because you already know how its going to taste...some of the thrill is gone,its like opening your christmas presents to see what you got then rewraping them and pretending you were surpriced....I think more couples would have a stronger bond if they waited.....

Answer 7

I am currently 20 years old, a male, and still a virgin. I do want to wait until marriage to have sex. This is because I find overwhelming joy in pleasing our one and only God. The God of Abraham, Isacc, and Jacob. I want to obey his every command and he does command that you should wait until marriage to have sex.

Answer 8

Preventing ur self from feeling all used up,preserving ur self-esteem,virginity is something to be proud of coz it's the symbol of pureness,enjoying the first time to have sex with ur wife and vice versa as it will be a good memory,protecting ur self from several diseases whch r spread through sex,guarding ur chastity

Answer 9

properly, there perhaps some motives for that: a million. no longer each physique is accustomed to the documents 2. no longer each physique cares or no longer each physique issues the documents are precise 3. intercourse is excellent 4. some human beings abstain from intercourse b/c of religion and not b/c of the documents there are greater yet particularly human beings have distinctive evaluations approximately distinctive stuff and that they do what they think of is solid wish this helped

Answer 10

well i'm 22 and not a virgin i guess i could help with the whole std thing but why would you want to marry someone if you don't know what it's like to live with them of have sex with them