if they use protection, if its just for once only.
2006-11-23 21:21:40 · 30 answers · asked by Mr Hex Vision 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Bella -in this case boy n girl and not boy n boy or girl n girl, as single people can be defined as boy or girl. Bible tells us its a sex to have sex outside marrige but it doesn't tell us why.
2006-11-23 21:27:36 · update #1
Its a philosological (sp) question. If both partners agree to it.
2006-11-23 21:32:00 · update #2
In the bible it says that sex before marriage is wrong if there is no commitment between two people. "Marriage" as referred to in the bible is symbolic for a relationship/connection/love/commitment.
Thus you don't need to be married (literally) to have sex but you need to be committed.
I feel that it is all about morals and there is no right or wrong. it's your own decision. Personally I believe that sex before commitment/love is wrong
2006-11-23 22:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In which case? Need more details! If it's you, and a friend, you both want to take this step, are both over the age of consent and are going to respect each other and remain faithful to each other, then it is not wrong.
I have done a lot of thinking about this in the past - felt guilty for years because I lived with someone without us being married. Eventually I talked it through with someone at my church, and came to the conclusion that if you are faithful, and it's in a loving relationship, it's not wrong.
Don't make it 'for once' only, and ALWAYS use protection. It would be wrong to bring a baby into the world if it's not the right time.
All the best xxx
2006-11-23 21:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question! Why is it wrong? Well, the reason it is wrong is because a covenant is formed between two people when they sleep together. Whenever there is blood involved in the Bible a covenant was formed. In the Old Testament they use to bring offerings to God, there was blood involved there. We had to shed blood, luckily not our own blood, but that of an animal to form a covenant with God and to then ask for forgiveness. Then came Jesus. When He was crucified there was again blood involved, a covenant was formed between us and God, making is possible to be forgiven for sin without bloodshed (from the new Testament onward). Now what does that have to do with your question? Well, when you have sex with someone there is blood involved, even though you are not able to see it, there is. A covenant is formed between the two of you. So the more people you sleep with the more covenants you form. One day when you find that one special person, you have already formed so many covenants that holds you back, and those people keep popping up in your head, even long after. So you have to break those covenants first before going on. I can write about this for pages on end, but this is it in a nutshell, hope it helps! Anyway, trust me on this, it IS worth waiting until you are married!
Blessings!
2006-11-23 22:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by dragonsfeartears 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God made sex for marriage. Look at all that happens when you have sex. When you have sex with someone the whole dynamic of the relationship changes, girls are having babies at such a young age too because of it. Children need 2 parents, a man and a woman, this is balance.
The emotional changes that come to a couple after sex are best handled when they are married. God didn't make us to have sex and then part, each going their own separate ways. It is a special union with body and spirit, two people are united and bonded. We just aren't made to have sex and then part.
2006-11-23 21:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by trainer53 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see as it is wrong, as long as they both want to, and are old enough to understand what they are doing, take no notice of it being a sin, remember marriage is a man made thing, it's more of a sin to treat a partner badly, than to have sex before marriage.
2006-11-23 21:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by ringo711 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 19:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it isn't wrong for boy and girl to have sex that is only if they are married and the only reason why christian say it would be wrong because of the spiritual side of it when two spirit connect they become one you become as each other you go around having sex with other people look how many people you would be connected to a lot of spiritual problems and Christians are human we just have a god that forgives us for our sins after we repent of it he knows we are only humans to we just have our faith relying on him and not on things of this world. god will forgive you if you have but he would prefer you to be married. we as humans are not to judge one another but love another so if anyone is judging it is only god that can judge but he will judged all not just sinners non believers but Christian's as well even more so as they should know our heavenly father's way . sorry for going on.
2006-11-23 21:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm studying philosophy and ethics of religion so I'm gonna have a bash at explaining this one. sex outside marriage is having sex with someone other than you married partner (even though you are not married) it is therefore adultery and is breaking God's commandment. sex is for the sanctity of marriage and for you to share with your marriage partner. therefore any type of sex that isn't with your married partner is adultery and therefore wrong.
2006-11-23 23:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says its wrong? It's a one night stand yes? It's up to those two people what they want to do, as long as they are both past the legal age of consent, and obviously they both give each other consent.
2006-11-23 21:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your soul is created to have sex with your marriage partner only. E.g. a woman's soul will forever search for the first man she had sex with, because it seeks to nurture him and have his babies, etc. When you have sex with multiple partners, it is true that a little bit of you gets scattered with all of them.
God did not give us rules because He wanted to control us, He gave us rules to protect us.
We tend to forget that there is a Satan and his demons and when we do not obey God, Satan gets an open door into our lives.
Satan likes to use sex outside of marriage to destroy us.
2006-11-23 21:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by ccc4jesus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋