OK, I think I'm in love with a guy. He's on my mind all the time, I can't even look at another bloke without an image of him flashing into my head, its like it actually hurts my heart, like i can feel a pain there, is this true love? I've known him for a couple of years and always had a thing for him, then when we met about a month ago we slept together and I've seen him a few times, and spoken ont he phone, can it be true love after a short amount of time?
Also, the situation between us is impossible. I have 100% followed my heart and not my head, and up to now so has he, but reality has kicked in and he seems to be following his head. If anyone ever found out we were together that would pretty much be the end of our lives, but I am prepared to go through that, but I don't have kids to lose and he does. If he loved me unconditionally, which I think he could do (but theres a big age gap) would he come clean? Even though everything else might fall to pieces?
Someone please help!
2006-11-23 21:12:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love & lust are not the only thing in life and we living in a society should think about our surroundings our relatives & friends also because leaving everybody and living with our love will never bring us any happiness but cripple our lives for ever.
2006-11-23 21:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eih i think you deserve a better guy..he seemed commited and that's a big no no..there's someone who deserves your true love..i think if you continue following your heart then you'll be bothered about the consequence it will bring..you'll not just destoying your life but also the life of other innocent people...if you really love him then you should consider what's right, what will hurt him, because eventually you decision will affect all of your lives...maybe he's not the right guy for you...
2006-11-23 21:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems he is a married guy?
married men are dangerous to fall helplessly in love with ma dear. U end up very hurt and now this guy seems he is not even discussing your relationship with him cud it be there is nothing to discuss, he has found himself a cheap lay on the side?
be more specific with your questiosn and lets understand whats really going on.
2006-11-23 21:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by Essie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regrets always comes last. Do not follow your heart. Follow your head since you are not stupid. Do not be a home breaker. It is not love you feel, its stupidity. Look around, many singles around
2006-11-23 21:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by rosamia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of which you persevere with your head and notice how your coronary heart might experience. in the adventure that your coronary heart feels incredibly unhappy... then think of following your coronary heart. See what the worst consequence might desire to be and in the adventure that your head doesnt make too plenty fuss.. then persist with your coronary heart. i think of following your coronary heart is the place you will discover happiness yet on occasion your coronary heart could be incorrect. yet till you persevere with your coronary heart you will constantly ask your self "what if"... of course on occasion you will possibly desire to be "clever" and persist with your head. working example, in case you extremely need to pass and notice a band and you havent have been given plenty money and cant have sufficient money to consume.. then following your coronary heart might desire to be "stupid" yet once you're loopy in love yet your head says its no longer a reliable thought.. nicely persist with your coronary heart and notice what occurs. Shoot for the moon, the worst which could ensue is you fall contained in the celebs!
2016-10-04 07:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case... follow your heart because sometimes, your head is really strick and sometimes they do let us lose our chances! So, listen to your heart this time! ^^
2006-11-23 21:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ngoc L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cool and let the things happen u will succeed if u really love him
2006-11-23 21:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by ashu k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant have love single-handedly.
it takes two to tango!
Godbless u...
2006-11-23 21:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Loren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋