ts my birthday and all the girls are going out tonight. Only one problem, my bloke wants to came. But i just dont think he will have a good time. Plus i dont want to be looking after him at the bar while all my mate dance on the floor. Am i being selfish?
2006-11-23 21:12:06 · 29 answers · asked by kelley k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A 'girly night out' means eyeing up all the other talent, sucking off the bouncer while the DJ screws your bum, letting your best friends auntie insert a dildo inside your vagina then watching and laughing as the DJ spurts his load over your best friends face.
Unless your boyfriend is a trainee cameraman and wants to help you and your friends make your own unique version of 'Jack *** 2' then you could be right, he may not have as much fun as he thinks.
2006-11-23 21:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from experience.. the answer should be no! also... how could it be a girlie night out if your bf came along?
I am a bloke and one thing I know for sure is that as a man I cannot and will not go to a girlie night out... remember in order for a relationship to work you do need time apart....
2006-11-24 05:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by LondonBlokeE4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girly night means just that...girls only!!! No way should your fella intrude!
Why not make an agreement that you and him can go out as a couple on Sat or Sun, just the two of you.
I think that would be much nicer than being turned into a coat, handbag, hat, drinks holder for the girls while you all go onto the dancefloor and shake ya shimmy!!!
2006-11-24 05:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Liggy Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the decision is dependent on the future and status of your relationship.
If he is new/casual then go with the girls and spend tomorrow night doing the couple thing.
If he is a long term/serious partner, then he would rightly expect to spend your birthday with you and your girlfriends should respect that and arrange the girls night for tomorrow or whenever.
Obviously it's your birthday and you can do what you want but...!
2006-11-24 05:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girly nights are a good thing for both sides, and no he shouldn't normally come. On the other hand to arrange one on your birthday seems selfish - it's understandable that your 'bloke' would want to be with you on that day ?
2006-11-24 05:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depeds what type of bloke he is - will he feel comfortable dancing with a group of girls without anyother guys around, and does he get on well with your girlfriends? I'd recommend not taking him along though, but obviously you know him best so you can decide based on what type of person he is. Perhaps you could have a separate night out together on another evening?
2006-11-24 05:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by hello772345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it had been any other day i would have said no, go with the girls only but as it's your birthday i say don't leave him out.
Your birthday is a special time and he will want to be apart of that.
If you don't let him come he may feel left out and hurt.
Happy Birthday!
2006-11-24 05:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to meet you towards the end of the night....That way you get to dance and enjoy your friends. Then, later on, not only will he see that you have had a good time, he will also be able to calm his poor insecure little nerves....
2006-11-24 05:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
and as a guy I still say no dont take him becaue its your night out but if he is worried just re-assure him you are not going out on the pull (maybe thats whats worrying him)
2006-11-24 05:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by Music fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good god no! tell the sad-do to stay away, i couldn't think of anything worse, all those terrible renditions of i will survive... all that talk of girl power...... makes me shudder just thinking about it. And your mates would be a little annoyed, he would kind of cramp every ones style. JUST SAY NO!!!!!!
2006-11-24 05:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by Birdy is my real name 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋