2006-11-23 20:28:52 · 11 answers · asked by Rachael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i thought you were serious i would give you advice, not long ago you asked for advice on someone you had a crush on. suicide is not something to be taken lightly, so don't take the mickey. my brother committed suicide 18 years ago, and if you knew the feeling it gives people you would not make stories up.
2006-11-23 20:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by rachie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello -Sorry to hear that you lost someone that you cared for. Ya life can be cruel at times but that is life. You had nothing to do with what happened no matter what-OK You should know that some of my friend over the years have done the same thing-stupid, stupid,stupid. The fact that I have no idea how old you are or the circumstances I can only make a guess OK. Please next time you write just put adult or youth or ET so we can provide better help. This is a public answer system for your support and most of the answers you will get are educated guessesOK But there are also some highly educated people here to who can Honestly help not BS. Oh I guess that we all have our reasons for asking a question but. OK -I you were really close then greiving is normal OK don't make a wall grief is good. crying is good that is human and it is a feeling that is shared with only one type of organism on this planet-mammals. To love is human and the joining of a man and a woman is a natural thing. OK Take the time to grieve for you and for him-and also know that he knows his mistake now! You on the other hand must make a disision now what-oh crap huh-well I honestly hope for my sacke and the rest of your family who luv you and all your friends and Santa Clause you live a rich and rewarding life. And I would not have answered if you didn't strike a cord in my heart. You see I get this feeling that you are a strong, mature, intellegent, person and you can make that aknowledgment that life does go on and I want to see what is down the road.OK I will not tell you that you won't get bruised again that would be untrue. But you will know that others are hurt as bad when this happens to them. It's never any easier but think of the good things, the happy things, the funny things you did with that person. OK Do you see now. Gain strenght from others and pass that strength on to someone else-his mom&dad brothers sis's, etc. Understand? don't be bitter hold every day as if it's your last. time of life expectancy is not a given. My Condolances to you and his family, please accept my simpithy for your and their hurt-may you now bloom into a flower and leave the sprout stage. Please be safe and best to you in the New Year
2006-11-23 21:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow! When did this happen? Jeez honey, I don't know where you live or how recent this incident took place but, you need to see a professional, you know! Really. I just think it would be a good idea to talk to someone who can help you sort through all of it. I mean, that is some serious **** there! Don't be thinking about stupid stuff though kiddo! You know what I'm saying? I don't know what the circumstances were, or are but I do know that giving up and taking your own life is not the answer! That is the cowards way out! The fact that you came here and put it out there for us to help you with tells me you are smarter than that anyway! Please, the thing to do is seek out some professional help dear. There is no shame in that you know. In fact, I rather think it takes some guts and some smarts to be able to admit you need a little help to work through something as serious and tragic as this. Well honey, I hope I was able to help you if even just a little, with this situation. Please take what I suggested and think about it OK? I hope it all works out for you. Your friend on line, Terry Ranaye
2006-11-23 20:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Terry Ranaye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh how sad. I know it would be very difficult to you. Just be brave , life once gone cannot be retrived back. Just bear the pain. Only time can make you come out of your grief. I am glad that you chose to share your grief with all of us. I particularly am with you and understand your feelings. There is plenty of more in life and hence do not lose your heart. Life is beautiful and should be enjoyed and good days are ahead for you. Try to develop new friendships and you can start as a new leaf. All the best.
2006-11-23 20:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you can do but remember the good times you had together. I haven't lost someone that close to me so I don't know what to say to comfort you. the best some one in my position could do would be to lend a shoulder to cry on. Spend time with the his Family and try to be there to support them. while he may have been Your Boyfriend he was their Son, Brother, Grandson, Nephew, Etc. They are most likely feeling the most loss right now. be there for them, at the same time they will be there for you. Don't forget him talk about him, the good times you all shared, the times you laughed the times you cried. the times you didn't know what to do. remember them charish them. I'm sorry you lost a dear friend. Remember!
2006-11-23 20:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kuraimizu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dear!
However for you life is not ended here. You got to live. And to live you need love. So look for new boyfriend.
It may look little tough but that's the way life goes. No meaning in crying over spoiled milk. Use your previous learning to make future better.
2006-11-23 20:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You poor thing, it takes time to heal and thats ok remember the good and take that with you on your journey to the future which is probably brighter than you think!! Just keeping looking forward
2006-11-23 21:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by Tracy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRAY and thank GOD for the time that he gave you guys together. Oh yeah....instead of saying, "I'd die for him, how about living instead?Seems logical to me. I'll pray for you babygirl!
2006-11-23 20:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by unkomnsins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that
all u can do is go through the grieving proccess, and move on
2006-11-23 20:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk and share your feelings about it with someone you trust.
2006-11-23 20:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋