quite a lot on here.....how would you define a player?
2006-11-23 20:15:42 · 9 answers · asked by eagledreams 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it may mean different things to different people, but to me it means, someone who isn't in touch with their own feelings, who isn't aware of how their behaviour makes others feel, or if they are aware they either don't care or are too impoverished as human beings to care about the feelings of others and the pain they cause. I would even describe some of them as sociopaths, i.e. people who have no regard for the feelings of others and no capacity to feel for or think about anyone but themselves. I would say they often have a distinct lack of substance to their inner being and are emotionally bankrupt!! As for the behaviour of a player, they are out to get you emotionally hooked and they feed off this emotion like a parasite or vampire (as generally, they are dead inside themselves), then when they have you hooked, job done, emotion sucked out, ego appropriately boosted and move on to the next victim for another fix. How they may get you emotionally hooked is by doing and saying whatever 'loving', 'caring', and 'charming' things that need to be said and done, without being able to emotionally connect with the meaning any of it. So it is completely false, but they may not realise this so that makes them very hard to spot!! I think this is the worst thing about a player, they are often not aware that this is what they are doing which makes any kind of honest or genuine relationship with them impossible, well, at least until they have grown up, if they ever do ... very, very interesting question, thank you for asking it!!
2006-11-23 22:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Lulu H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it:
(a) A brand of cigarette?
(b) A name given sometimes to a musician?
(c) A device used for listening to music and/or showing movies using a popular format such as DVD?
2006-11-23 20:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sum 1 who messes wiv ur feelings - tells u they like/love u n then goes n cheats on u wiv numerous amounts of people - sumtimes all at the same time!
2006-11-23 20:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Jodi ♥ Kaydi's Mummy ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLAYEr usually goes out with several people. THEY play games.THEY also are liars. DECIEVERS.I DONT TRUST A PLAYER.
2006-11-23 20:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex. Tells you he loves u and gets another girl pregnant..... by accident. Whatever
2006-11-23 20:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who plays games,sportsmen must be players.footballers are football players.etc etc
2006-11-23 20:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by adam r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who cheats repeatedly on their partner
2006-11-23 20:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by lamyarhull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some one who wants their cake and eat it. they just don't care who they hurt or how they hurt them.
2006-11-23 20:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by Foxy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already there - India is the destination.
Bye
2006-11-23 20:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋