We've been friends for ages. We got really close this year and were even learning a song together for a variety concert. Him play piano me sing. We decided to do more songs together in future. Did concert on tuesday. Mde a few stuff ups but it was still good. After the show he was really distant and quiet. The next day he didn't barely talk to me. Thursday i didn't know where he was. Went looking 4 him and found him all happy and friendly with another one of my girlfriends the way he used to be with me. Today I was talking to him in DAT (design and technology) and i asked him if he still wanted to do another song next year. He was quiet. So i didn't think he'd heard me. Later i asked him again and he was like "dunno" and i was thinkin well that's a big change from wat he'd sed b4. I forgot to mention i wore a really pretty sparkly blach (low cut) dress for my performance. Do you think he was a bit annoyed with that? like thinkin i'm skanky? I dun know wat else's gone wrong! I miss him
2006-11-23 20:12:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, you can guess, you can read other peoples guesses that are written here, but we all know only one person has the answer.
If you truly value what you had, and you are fairly sure he felt the same way, you have to ask him. If he did share your feelings he will tell you.
Tell him how special you think the friendship is, and that you feel that something has happened to change things between you. Tell him that if you have done something to upset him that you would hope that, he too, valued the friendship enough to let you know what that was.
Good luck, and I hope it can be resolved. Keep in mind that some guys are comfortable having a girl for a best friend until they start to have feelings for another girl. Then they feel like they are ruining their chances with the potential beau if they keep the best friend around.
2006-11-23 20:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him and keep you head up high like you couldnt really give a damn about his immaturity!! I know this sounds mean, however you already tried talking to him and he was quit rude, so now you should give it back in the most nicest possible way! Make friends with some other guys, laugh alot and have a lot of fun, he will get the message and be jelouse!! If he starts to ask stupid question, trying to turn the cards around, like your not talking to him da da etc Just tell him, you werent talking to me so I found comfornt elsewhere. Good luck!!!!
2006-11-23 20:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by Scarlett H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think he is offended by you and you didn't know what it is. Some times we may hurt the feeling of our friends without intentions. So you have to think hard what that will be. If you can't remember, then you should ask him directly what the his cause is. After that you should apologize him. I think he cares about you. It must have been some thing that he never expected it from you that made him act like this.
2006-11-23 21:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be jealous... that or he would not look to love your new boyfriend. Having a boyfriend for the 1st time variations each and every thing! you could desire to make particular you leave time on your friends as long as spend time inclusive of your boyfriend. My advice is to spend an afternoon inclusive of your chum and ask him why he seems to be appearing that way. He might in comparison to your boy in any respect and sees something undesirable in him... you ought to nonetheless shop your good chum because of the fact after your dating ends, your friends are those which will help you! good success!
2016-10-17 11:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's thinking about "MUSIC" and you are thinking about relationship stuff and not so much the music. He may be feeling the pressure of "liking" you ...when the only thing you have going on together is music....
give him guy space. they like the caves. He'll be back...
Or simply, be straight up and ask him. "Ive noticed this, whats up?"
2006-11-23 20:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by bettaboop007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a bloke:
a) He wants to sleep with you
b) He is sleeping with your friend
c) He's in a bad mood about something, wait 'til next week - all will be ok.
2006-11-23 20:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in this case you hed to talk to him openly..if not things might worsen...if u guys had been fren for long im sure theres a reason in everythin...it jz up to the question u goin to ask..
2006-11-23 20:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it sounds like his crush for you has faded. See if you to can still be friends.
2006-11-23 20:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by eightieschic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's in love with u without your knowledge n' now he's so over u??? u gotta talk to him.....do not make guesses....ask him to tell the truth n' promise him not to be mad at him...good luck!!!
2006-11-23 20:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find out first if he has any best friend he is treating like your worth then confront him and ask if you are still his best friend.. that's it
2006-11-23 20:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋