whenever i pick up topic about cybering there will be lot of ppls remarks that we are disgusting,jeaks & cheaters..etc etc...
See from my point of view i dont consider it cheating...
See you maybe cybering with a person in a virtual world whome u will never want to meet in real world...& since u cybering doesnt change your behaviour in real world...
The term cheating is not being true to your partner ...but all couple hide stuff from each other.. so all cheat.
Why dont ppl understand that there is nothing wrong here
2006-11-23 19:45:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think because most people believe that you can cheat with more than just a physical act..whether you cheat in your mind, your body or your soul, it's all cheating..at least that's how i view it but that's just my standards
and no, not all couples hide stuff from one another and not all cheat. ..that's not true at all
2006-11-23 19:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I have answered you once already but I will try this again since you did not pick my answer as best :( I dont feel cybering is bad. Its better then going out for the real thing. What is the differance if your in your bedroom getting off to porn or a mag. I think this is a new way of having a fantasy to many and many arent use to this new way of fantasy so they say its cheating or your a freak. Sex is natural and a stress reliever. This is a much safer way of getting it. If no cam is involved and only descriptive wording then this is no differant then reading a romance novel ladies. We all know what are in some of those romance novels...whew..good stuff. And its no differant then a guy reading a playboy or such. If your married and doing this w/another on cam I do think you should tell your partner. Even though your not touching or meeting that person...it plays on feelings and emotions. Why cam if your spouse is there for you. Some do this for fantasy and to get "going" so to say but to get satisfied by this and not tell your partner is dening them of your marital vows. Have I left anything out?
2006-11-24 03:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a big fan of it but I think that it can actually help people work on their imaginative skills.
Actually, I recommend cybering for those that claim that they have no imagination. Everyone has had a fantasy. To help out that Imagination, all you have to do is conjure up a scenario in your mind and play it out to the end - class ended.
2006-11-24 03:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by dajyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're sharing intimate thoughts with someone other than your partner... It's "technically" cheating. It's not the same as porn or something like that, there is an actual person on the other end.
2006-11-24 03:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tigerlillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cybering is for guys like you who either have no balls or no game (or both) to go out and meet someone face to face. Lame..
2006-11-24 05:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by Javon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to cyber! I think it's harmless fun!! No it's not cheating!
2006-11-24 03:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by pitman L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz it sounds morally wrong. Though you aren't physically doing something. They can't see you, touch you, and they don't know you. It is lame but not that bad of a thing to do. lol
2006-11-24 03:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just beating off. Faak what everyone thinks.
2006-11-24 03:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to each his own, as long as they are 18 years old or older, doesn't involve animals, then it's ok.
2006-11-24 08:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done that before, but it's not as fun or exciting....oh well, to each his own I guess. or her.
2006-11-24 03:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by Amber skie (22/f/ca) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋