I talk to this guy everyday on the computer for at least an hour.He is one of my best guy friends. He knows I am really into him and have been for about 2 or 3 months. He is absolutely the most amazing guy I've ever met and can always cheer me up, make me laugh, and calm me down. He will be 18 the beginning of february, I won't be 15 until the end of may. My parents think he is a little too old for me to be around so much. I spend tuesdays and thursdays after school with him for about an hr and a half, and saturday nights for about 3 or 4 hours. Also, I have lunch with him and he walks to my next class with me. I know he also likes me. I'm not sure if I should ask him out or not, though? Please help me out. Thank You.
2006-11-23 19:35:54 · 8 answers · asked by Dead Barbie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, if you like him go for it, because the age difference shouldn't stop you from liking / loving, but there's going to be problems that going to come up like the way that your parents don't like the age difference or as time progressed into the relationship someone in the relationship will realize that they can't be together because they have too many differences because of their diffence in age. i'm all for the love, but make sure that ur ready to face the challenges. :D
2006-11-23 19:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by bltmek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-11-23 19:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. Same prob with me and a 19 yr old guy and I'm 14. Don't ever leave him. Don't let the chance slip by. He may be your only true one 4 u. Try to make ur parents understand.
2006-11-23 19:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but I agree with your parents. You are only 14 and hes 18. Give it acouple more years before you start thinking about boys. You start dating then there will be sex, possible pregancy. You are to young to think of any of that. enjoy your child hood while you can. Dont rush it. Boys will always be there, your child hood wont be.
For now just stay friends maybe in acouple of years it may gtow to something more.
2006-11-23 19:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by Char 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i now wat u r going through but dont get to end to it my best freind got in to this guy on the com and she ran away from home and went to mexico over him and when she came back she slep at my house 4 2 week but 1 day i took her home and she was home schooled 4 at least 3 years
2006-11-23 19:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by Rachael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it must be hard...but he is not right for you yet. there are plenty of guys you could be with that are closer to your age. the age difference if magnificent during the teenage age range..but once you grow up it doesnt matter so much. goodluck dear.
2006-11-23 19:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by ryan 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for India answer/question web side to understand your parents.
Bye
2006-11-23 19:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should go for it, but in a way u should listen to ur parents, but if u must ask him, then do so, its ur choice
2006-11-23 19:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋