2006-11-23 19:28:15 · 6 answers · asked by spanky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start with a fleurage at the feet.
You may be wondering what a fleurage is. Basically it is a light stroke with your open (and more or less flat) hand. You are not pressing your hand against the foot, instead, you are just lightly sliding your fingertips and palm across the surface of the skin. A good fleurage would be a long stroke starting just above the toes at the top of the foot, moving upward, around to the heel, then finishing the stroke by continuing to bring your hand behind the heel and to the other side of the foot, finally, removing your hand from the foot with a subtle flourish. The purpose of the fleurage is to set the tone for the rest of the massage. In essence you have set a perceptual background mood which will influence how the rest of the massage is perceived.
The fleurage should take 4 to 5 seconds. It is important that you do it properly.
Then move onto the base of the foot to transition from fleurage to begin utilizing pressure in the massage. Use your thumbs to massage the base of her feet. She will appreciate it.
Even better would be if you allow her to sit up somewhere above you (say, on a couch) while you are seated or on your knees below her. It will give her a feeling of power and will heighten the relaxing and pleasant experience that your massage provides. Focus your eyes on the feet and from time to time glance up and make eye contact. Keep the eye contact brief.
The rest is up to you. Try to give her at least 15 minutes per foot, for a total of a half hour. Most people's hand strength is sufficient to permit doing this.
2006-11-23 19:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by pcvcolin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay your girlfriend on a bed face up with her head hanging over the side. Then sit on the side of the bed with her head over the edge, take a brush, and gently brush the back of her neck and lower hair using long smooth strokes. You might want to start on the ends and work your way down to the roots from there. Even if you mess up in the relationship she'll never forget that massage. I guarantee this.
Set the mood also with some candles and soft music
2006-11-23 19:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by Eric B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Full-body, starting with the face and going all the way down to her toes. When you start warming the oil, make sure she's had a glass of wine or two and have her take off all her clothes and lay flat on a fluffy blanket or towels. Better know what you're doing, a bad massage is like a bad BJ: Thanks for trying, but next time warn me beforehand so I can turn on the TV!
2006-11-23 19:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooo, a wonderful body massage or a foot and leg oil massage :)
2006-11-23 20:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how sweet!!!!! mayb e, get her naked first and act like u want some..... then, lay her on her back and act like u want some.... then, take the lotion or oil out and start rubbing on her back... nothng is more sweeter for a woman to think that this man dont want sex and wants to massage me??? yenno?
2006-11-23 19:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by MaRitA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MINK GLOVES!!!
or the alphabet downstairs.
2006-11-23 19:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by apesee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋