Our desks are right next to each other and he's still very new with the company? I've had lunch once with him and he said he'd like to have lunch again, but hasn't asked (I'm guessing he's really busy with work & certification exams, but I could be making excuses). I've invited him to my holiday party @ my home & he said he'll be coming. We chat in the hallways almost daily, but the guy really has no clue. My friend at work who knows how I feel tells me all the time that he's pretty dense.
2006-11-23 19:25:08 · 5 answers · asked by curlius caesar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time to get your butt in gear and help Mr Dense see you are available and looking and well, you know.
Sometimes, it is necessary for you girls to tell us what to do, in a way it looks like it was our idea to start with.
If this guy is dense, you may have to be a little conniving.
Good luck!
2006-11-23 19:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, what are your company rules on dating co-workers? Would it result in one of you losing your job or being transfer ed to a different locale? 2. is he bringing a date to your party? 3. Did you ask him to be your date at the party? This might be a good way to let him know you want a casual office relationship to go up to the next level. Good luck, but be prepared for it to go either way. Dating co-workers almost always makes things weird at work,especially if things don't work out. Are you mature enough to handle that situation?
2006-11-24 05:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by territizzyb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Orkut has a very nice facility for this.
Add somebody to your crush-list,
if the other person also adds you to your crush-list then both will be mailed that they have a crush on each other.
May be while talking amongst a group of friends you can talk about this Orkut facility, maybe your crush maybe able to pick up a hint from it. ( I presume both of you have profiles on Orkut )
Other way is take help from your friends...
I don't have much experience to suggest more.
2006-11-24 03:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by Pooja Bedi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out for a dinner date and catch a movie after that. Drop more obvious hints. Sometime guys dun catch subtle hints. Good Luck
2006-11-24 03:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe unvite him to more parties or go out w/ him ,ask him if he wants go out and eat luvh w/ u or have cofee , and then go from there .....then ask him out on a date. good luck
2006-11-24 03:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋