hey getting married. give me some tips to make her happy?

Answer 1

1) Telling Her Daily That She is Loved
Everyone needs to be affirmed. Everyone needs to know they are loved. The best ways to say "I love you" are usually in simple, everyday, seemingly unimportant ways like an unexpected hug or holding hands when you walk together.
2) Understanding and Forgiveness
There will be days when your wife will make mistakes or when she will be difficult to be around. No one is perfect. She both wants and deserves your willingness to understand and forgive her. Remember that no relationship can be sustained without forgiveness.

3) Conversation
Don't let your conversations with your wife dwindle to nothing but talk about your kids, your jobs, and the weather. If that happens, your marriage relationship could be in real trouble.
4) Willingness to Make Time for Her and Your Children
Having quality time with your wife and kids isn't something that just happens. You have to make it happen by not only making the plans but by following through. Time with those you love has to be a high priority for you.
5) Saying "Yes" More Than Saying "No"
Habitual negative responses to your wife and kids can push them away from you. Think twice before saying "no" and you will be surprised at how saying "yes" can improve your relationships.
6) Listening Well
It's really disheartening for a wife to share her thoughts and feelings with her mate and then realize that he didn't actually listen to her. Your wife wants and needs you to not only listen with your ears, but to listen with your heart.
7) Affection and Kindness
How often do you say "please" or "thank you" or give your spouse an unexpected kiss? Unfortunately, some married couples forget that being kind and affectionate to one another are keys to a successful marriage.
8) Sharing Household and Child Rearing Responsibilities.
One of the main reasons couples fight is conflict over who is doing what around the house. Chores and child care are not the sole responsibility of your wife. She shouldn't have to ask you to do your share around the house.
9) A Day Off Now and Then
Give your wife a day off several times a month. This means that she will be free from worrying about what is happening with the kids, the house, the pets, and you. She not only deserves this break in her schedule, she needs it to be emotionally and physically healthy.
10) Commitment to Take Care of Yourself Both Physically and Emotionally
Many men are notorious for not taking care of themselves when it comes to health issues. This isn't fair to your wife. She is your lover not your mother. Take responsibility for your own health concerns.

Answer 2

It's great that you both have the support of your families. That's a big plus, but the trust problems you've experience are a huge minus. Trust is the most important thing, and if that foundation has been cracked I'd definitely wait another year or two at the very least. If you and she fully understand the stages that a marriage goes through and realize and accept that the marriage relationship is very different than the dating relationship then you might have a good chance of making it. Marriage is real work--everyday. It's not 50/50, it's 100/100. There will be some days (weeks or months) that you or she may only be able to give 30 percent, and there will be rough patches because expectations won't always be met. How do you each deal with problems? Have you even experienced a serious relationship problem yet? Also, do you both realize that what you two feel for each other now is not all that different from what other young couples in love feel? It's not any more or less special, but it's not unique. Make sure of the real reasons your getting married--often they have undiscovered psychological roots based on past experiences. You should be marrying the right person at the right time in the right way and for the right reasons. Listening to your heart if foolish; listen to your head. What goals do you two share? What are your feelings about the big issues: religion, politics, children, abortion, finances, education, family interaction, etc.? You really need to match up exactly on each of those and more. Do you know each others "love language'? Does she feel most that you love her when you give her a gift, put oil in her car, take her out to eat, ask for her advice, or what? I strongly suggest that you ready Dr. Gary Chapman's book, "The Five Love Languages." It's inexpensive and a quick, easy read that can really benefit couples of all ages. Since you seem to be set financially and women crave a sense of security, would she still want to marry you if you were penniless or unable to provide? Deep down, are you her escape from a life of mediocrity? Her ticket to the good life? Mature or not, at 17 no one knows what they don't know about life. She doesn't really know what she may be missing out on. She has no clue how she will feel about things in ten years. She's not yet fully come to know herself. Also, if she's not supporting herself and lived an independent life, that could come back to haunt her later. She could become too dependent upon your provision, feel no sense of herself or ever discover who she is. That personal identity is very important to a woman--more so a little later in life when she's already into a marriage routine. What does she want to accomplish in her life? Are you the center of it? If so, there's a red flag. She has to have and continue with her goals, education, hobbies, etc. or she will lose all sense of self. Marriage is the beginning of work; it's not just happily ever after. There is so much to consider but, again, your relatives know you both the best. If you have their blessing and support, you may very well be ahead of the game, but the trust problems you've already experienced could likely turn into huge problems down the road.

Answer 3

follow the below things.

1. understand she is also human being with gray character like every one - she is not superwoman she cannt do all.

2. always be polite and talk good about her relative but never accept the same from her.

3. when she is saying no understand she is telling you yes

4. when she give advices to you listen it may be useless but listen.

5. take her out..for movie, eating out or even for shopping.

6 once she becomes mother respecgt her lot.. it is not so easy to give birth to child.

7. tell her that she is most beautiful and intelligent perosn of the earth.

Answer 4

Be honest and trustworthy in other wards have some honor
Make her laugh (often)
Don't lose the romance
Compliment her often
Make her feel loved, appreciated and special
NEVER stray
Always work hard at communication
Never go to bed mad
Pick your battles
and as the preacher told my husband on our wedding day... and I quote.........preacher said I'm going to give the best advice you will ever get about marriage. You can be right or happy you can't be both :)

Answer 5

Be happy yourself and hope she is(will continue to be) a happy woman. Otherwise there's nothing you can do and whoever isn't happy will look for any excuse to get divorced or will cheat. You can't make someone be happy with themselves.

Answer 6

Start by loving, honoring, & cherishing her. Know what kind of woman she is & learn to pick & choose your battles. Surprise her every now & then with little gifts. If you love her enough, let her get away every now & then to see friends or for her to be involved in some sort of activity away from you.

Answer 7

Have onething in mind!

she is yours and forgive her mistakes and make sure you point her mistakes in a kind way and never talk about her parents and family badly at any situation.

Ex: If sait is more, tell her Dear salt is little more today otherwise the taste is wonderful.

Answer 8

You cannot make a woman happy. It's impossible.
Good luck.

Answer 9

Understand firstly, that in a marriage like all relationships there is bound to be misunderstanding, hurt and disagreement. give her space. be interested in her, value her thoughts, feelings and opinions. in my opinion, u r definitely going to make her happy, i can see the interest and the effort in your question itself. enjoy your newly married life, go out, have fun! remember little things like what she likes to eat, her fav restaurant, her fav colour and never miss special occasions like birthdays! All the Best To You!!

Answer 10

No one likes comparing with others.So, dont compare with some body else and get a bad name. Always practice to praise her for whatever she does if atall it is wrong.If you want to point her mistakes tell her softly.