Ok so there is this guy and he is around my age (late 20's) and I have a major crush on him but he doesnt contact me as much as I like... does it mean he is just busy cause he is a full time college student or because he doesn't like me? how can I tell him how I feel without sounding desperate
2006-11-23 19:22:40 · 7 answers · asked by myspace junkie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its because he is still in college. Dont do anything. Be there for him, show him how much you love him but be observant to find out the tell,tell signs that he also has feelings for you. Dont assume
2006-11-23 19:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me the magic word is "coffe shop" (well OK, magic 2 words). Invite him to something non-threatening, like a coffee shop where you can just chill and chat and not have it be a big scary official date. If things go well and you do something similar a couple of times, then move on to a real date. If he blows you off a couple of times, then he doesn't like you. Unless he works for NASA building rockets, he's not so busy as to not have any time to have a cup of coffee. In that case, respect his wishes and try to move on.
Good luck.
2006-11-23 19:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by yishor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling some one how you feel isn't desperate, just ask him for coffee or drinks and tell him how you feel and let it go at that if he feels the same way he will let you know. But you have to make that first move. Good Luck.
2006-11-23 19:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are just like that, when they have a job to do they do it. it doesn't mean he doesn't like you. If you bump into him ask about his classes, find out what he likes, ask him for a cup of coffee together to talk (about anything). If he says yes don't tell him right away how u feel. You'll probably scare him. talk to him, look at his eyes and then you'll know if YOU really like him that much and if he's into you and then take it from there.
2006-11-23 19:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by atlantis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to him more and ask him out!!! and if he still doesnt talk to u as much or seems busy talk to him and tell him that u need to talk and tell him that you guys are in a relashionship and needs to get serious about it because you are. ok hope it helps!
2006-11-23 19:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never heard that word "Crush" since I was 13.
2006-11-23 19:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him to dinner. You're both adults, and it doesn't sound desperate.
2006-11-23 19:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Amelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋