I'm 14 and I like one of my friends and she's 13. We met in the summer and i told her that i liked her and she said that she liked me too. both our parents are pretty over protective and think that we both shouldn't be dating anyone right now. but we both really like each other and i want to ask her to be my girlfriend. so how do i ask her, and if says yes then what? and how will we do anything about it, like how do i ask her out or anything, without our parents interfering or worrying? I need some advice................................and please i need answers from people who are actually going to help me with my problem...........................not people who are just going to tell me that "i'm too young to be thinking about girls" or anything like that.
2006-11-23 19:21:28 · 5 answers · asked by zemke14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry.......................i forgot to put a "not" in there.................................................this question is for people who are not just going to tell me that "i'm too young to be thinking about girls" or anything like that.
2006-11-23 19:24:04 · update #1
What up young blood?
Why are parents so overprotective these days? Probably has to do with Columbine and 9/11 and Iraq and all the crazy stuff going on in the world. But, all kids grow up, and parents have to realize that they can't control their children's lives forever. And, I'm a firm believer that the more experience you can obtain yourself, the better off you will be in the future.
First things first, forget everything. Let you mind go blank and ask. Don't worry about anything. No repercussions, no worries, no regrets. She already expressed interest, so your biggest obstacle is her hang ups with her peeps, right? Persistence is good, and you'll work on your sales skills too. But first just talk, let her know what you feel and ask her out. Then you just roll with the punches. Whatever you do after that, just be smart. Tell your parents when you're comfortable. Good luck.
2006-11-23 19:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most adults will tell you, "Just focus on your studies! You are still young. Forget about her. You will meet someone else." Thus, there is no need for me to say those words to you. Let me encourage you in other ways. You are right to express yourself. Try to invite her to your house and vice-versa. This way both parents would be at ease thus shouldn't have any objections. All that is needed is for both of you to gain parental trusts. Good luck!
2006-11-24 03:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask her out to a gathering with a group of friends, then go somewhere afterwards alone... but I'm not endorsing it :p
Ultimately, it is not nice to do things behind your parents' back. You should see if you could get your parents to recognise that you are mature enough to have a girlfriend. So, whatever it takes for your parents to realise you're more grown up than they consider you are, do it.
2006-11-24 03:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,im 14 too so i know what ur going through.same with my parents they think htat i shouldnt trust guys and everything.like i dont know how to think if somthing OVER PROTECTIVE DUH!!but maybe you should like i dunno..invite her over to ur house and get ur parents to talk to her or somthing and go over to her house a few times get to know her parents BUT DONT TELL THEM YET THAT YOU ARE DATING OR LOVE EACH OTHER OR THEY'LL FREAK AND BREAK U 2 APART!!(just a warning)and if ur parents and hers seem ok and comfortable around her and you them tell them that you liker her and that u realli reali wanna take care of her.believe me it should do the trick just be patient!!!
2006-11-24 03:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by angel miaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use ur mouth to ask , dont use ur bu t t
2006-11-24 03:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋