we dated off and on starting 21 years ago, and for the past 11 months he has been all I think about constantly. I walked away a few times because I wanted him to be happy and would still do the same today if needed but i do feel i'm still in love with him and when i remember our times together certain things i'm reminded of makes me believe he may feel the same so should i continue to try to find him or let him stay a memory
2006-11-23 19:08:59 · 12 answers · asked by sassysandyinmi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you know he feels the same way if you haven't talked to him. You can keep looking but don't be too let down if he's happily married and you rarely cross his mind. Be prepared for anything. Even if he doesn't want to be with you romantically you will probably have a lot of fun just seeing him and talking. Good-luck
2006-11-23 19:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's single, it might be that you would still be a good match somehow, but 13 years is a long time and this sound very dreamy. It is a good chance that even if you find this guy, he's married and have a family and you don't want to mess up anything in his life, right?!
Just for your own emotions, it might help you to know where he is, but think twice before contacting him.
How about finding out what kind of relationship you want now and try finding that instead?
2006-11-24 03:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already walked away a few times, why would you want to go back. It will hurt so much more after having looked for so long. 13 years is a long time, and stuff changes. Just be happy with the memories you've got.
2006-11-24 03:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Amelia 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never give up keep trying to find him.. But if you do find something really good on the way do make sure to give it a chance.
2006-11-24 03:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by pwnz7321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Try to find him, If you TRULY love him the no matter what you will be there for him.AS he for you.There is no other power any emotion that is stronger than love, never give up on the one you love.You will find him, or he will find you.
2006-11-24 03:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying but still look for new people along the way. dont keep people that u like rite now from dating u, if someone new comes along then go for them
2006-11-24 03:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
heres something funny...ur case is exactly what is happening to me rite now but from thebeginnign i jsut let go of her...but since she goin to college next year i knwo im going to lose track of her....i know that in 5 years ill be tryin to find her and i know i wont stop till i do....so DONT QUIT!! young heart tells no lies
2006-11-24 03:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by lovin_mi_fresa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking! You never know!
2006-11-24 04:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by pitman L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying
2006-11-24 03:10:24 · answer #9 · answered by xkelx_xx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let it go. people change and i know that for a fact.
2006-11-24 03:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by cowboybabeeup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋