at the age of 18, being a freshman in college, that I've only had 1 girlfriend my entire life (which began and ended this year)?
2006-11-23 18:54:27 · 15 answers · asked by i quit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lasted from May to Mid July I think. Oh yeah, I'm still a virgin.
2006-11-23 19:18:57 · update #1
Dude, I had one girlfriend in high school that lasted two months. It took me a while to catch up on learning but now I can proudly say that I need more than two hands to count the partners I've had, and I'm 33. The majority of people I were with were in a relationship with me for more than a year, so it's not like I constantly slept around. At 28 years old I got tired of being a nice guy and decided to only make myself happy instead of always putting others ahead, and it has paid off well. You still have to think with your brain more than your male appendage though.
Even now I can still go to the clubs hanging out with my girlfriend (been together over a year), and I know the married couples that don't look too happy are envying me. Just don't get married early and ruin it. think of it this way too. When you're in high school you really only connect with those in your school. When you're in college the number of available women expands. Then when you're in the real world it's a meat market.
I can't say us males don't measure another guy in the number of women that he's conquered, but just play it safe and you won't have to hear from those same males on how many child support payments they make or avoid.
2006-11-23 19:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Eric B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic dude, Look at me I am almost 35 and never had a girlfriend, never kissed, nor had sex yet. At least you had one, and many more will come you way since you are in college which I would love to have been in at college at 18. I certain missed out of a lot of fun. So, start socializing with the opposite sex and may be you will get another chance. Good luck.
2006-11-23 19:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 10:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, listen: I am now just embarking on my first real relationship and I am 24. I am attractive, nice and intelligent, so I have no reason to believe that there is anything wrong with me. Sure, it can feel bothersome, but it shouldn't if you are comfortable with who you are. We are all different...dating in high school is drama and waste of time in most cases anyway. 18 isn't THAT old...
2006-11-23 19:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, that actually is what attracted me to my Husband. I was his first everything.( We then broke up after 2 years, he spent 2 years dating around as did I. Which I am glad he did because I didn't want him wondering what else was out there.
Then after school we married.)
There's plenty of time in our lives for serious relationships, I admired him for focusing on his athletics and friends and hope my son does the same thing.
It attractive and shows your not needy......
good luck and have fun
2006-11-23 19:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by tsostler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Lots of people have only had 1 girlfriend/boyfriend at your age. Some have never even had a date. Don't worry about it.
2006-11-23 19:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's better.
But more importantly, its better if you know that it's better and that you focus more on the school and not get caught up with girls. I'm not saying to reject any girl that comes your way, just don't go on a date rather than study for mid-term or something along those lines.
2006-11-23 18:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, nothing wrong with that, my friend.
Still, some people out there think that if you haven't dated much then you're some kind of a loser, so I wouldn't go around telling people that you've only had one girlfriend. If they like you for who you are, then what does it matter how many girlfriends you've had.
2006-11-23 19:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by yishor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You're young and experiencing other things other than just girls. Plus, you're in college now so you'll be meeting more people. Don't sweat it. It will happen naturally.
2006-11-23 19:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by Atypical 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's becoming somewhat bothersome.
2006-11-23 19:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋