ive been frnds w/ this girl and we rly got along, now i'm starting to like her mor thn a frnd. a few days ago she sed tht she dsn't like me mor thn a frnd wen i told her that. we havn't talkd since then, but it seems stupid for our frndship to end bcos nothin serous hapend betwn us and weve only knwn eachother for 2 mnths. she sed that its getin weird and awkward. i thnk she jst freakd out wen i told her tht i liked her. but im not sure. bcos frm wat i got frm her words, she ddn't sound like she wantd to be frnds nemore. again... i think it's stupid bcos we were close friends even for 2 months. we talkd about evrythin. now, we havn't talkd since "the" conversation nd we ddnt get to talk clrly cos it was over phone. i jst need to know if i shud contact her ever again. and if i shud and if i can, how long should i w8? (btw... she's leavin for 2 months on a work camp abt 2 wks frm now). i wnt to still be her frnd cos we wernt rly bf-gf, i just liked her alot.
2006-11-23 18:50:14 · 9 answers · asked by indi d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, you wanna give her time to relax and maybe forget a lil bit of what happened..so dont do anything right away....right before she leaves call and say bye, have a good time blah blah...ok, then she leaves with you on her mind...then after maybe another few weeks or so if you can, send her a text to say, i just wanted to say hi hope all is awesome....then when she gets back, dont get all over her nuts, wait a lil while and then call to say hey! welcome back!..sorry i didnt get a hold of you sooner, been really busy....this way she knows your "over it" weather you are or not....then say hey, there is a few of us that or gonna go and do ....i dont know what you do for fun...and invite her....this way its a group so its real chilled out...this will get you back in to a friend situation...and yer on your own from there.
2006-11-23 18:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mentioned age thus I would assumed you both are fairly young. It takes time for one to get to know each other although 2 months is a little short. Within these 2 months she may realised that the relationship wouldn't go further than just friends. Don't get it wrong. There's nothing wrong with you. The 2 months could be exploration period trying to see if both of you fit. My advice is don't get to uptight about it. Move on with life. Hey, there are many nice ladies out there. Cheer-up, won't you?
2006-11-23 19:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in her shoes...I had a good friend of mine one time that told me he liked me and since I did not feel the same ....it was weird...so I distanced myself for a little bit then forced myself to try to go back to the way it used to be.. It was hard...but I relized otherwise I would loose a friendship......Another time I was in a similar situation ....actually recently...a friend that I had been friends with for years confessed that he had deep feelings for me...At first it was such a shock that he liked me that I just wanted to runaway...believe it or not the weird thing is that I finally started liking him back the more I hung out with him. Well lets just say no we are having a baby!
2006-11-23 19:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months is not a long relationship and if she ended it permanently I wouldn't be surprised. whenever we tell someone who's a friend we like more than just friends we risk losing that person forever. call her just before she leaves and tell her you're sorry to cause this awkwardness and would like to get past it so you can at least be friends again. wish her a good trip and ask her to call when she returns. Don't get all whiny and needy, she already said she's not interested in anything more so don't rehash it.
2006-11-23 18:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 11:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go " if she is urs she willl come back, if she doesn't.... she was never urs. i believe every reletionship is give and take. whatever u will give u get the same and in case u don't get the same stop giving......i know it might sound very selfish but i think this is a sensible approach towards life. i have also seen lots of ups and down in my life so this is my experience that i am sharing with u.
2006-11-23 19:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her before she leaves, and then give her time to think about it, who knows maybe when shes gone shell miss you and then shell find out if she did like you, cause why would she talk to you in the first place for two months and then all of a sudden stop?
2006-11-23 18:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by latin bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you have known her for 2 months and I love how you call her a close friend. To me a close friend is someone you have known for years and you trust with your life. I have friends but my closest friend is one that I have known for 20 years and we have been through alot of crap together.
2 months, move on with your life.
2006-11-23 18:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-23 18:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋