Me and my best friend were talkin about who we like and i told her that I like this guy matt for a very long time and sher said that she dident like anyone but when i asked her the next day she said she like matt aswell. I asked her how long has she liked him and she told me 3 days. That after noon matt's friend dylan and her were walking home because they live near each other and he asked her who she liked n she told him matt and i think that the dylan told matt and now her and him are going to go out with each other but i still like matt alot. WHAT DO I DO HELP ME!!!!!!!
2006-11-23 18:44:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for a start, I think your friend was really mean to do that, and I would look for a new friend if I was you. You could confront her of course and tell her exactly what you think of her for being so spiteful.
Why not go to Matt's friend and tell him what happened, using the excuse that you are afraid that your friend is gonna hurt him as she appears not to really like him, only to want to make you jealous. Otherwise, go to Matt and tell him how you feel about him, and that you realise that he has a date with your friend planned, but that you don't think she really likes him, only wants to spite you. Try it. You have nothing to lose. And I wouldn't worry about losing your "non" friend anyway. She is a slag.
2006-11-23 18:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she's not that great of a friend then, is she?
Ask yourself this question: If she didn't do what she did, would you have done it? Would you tell someone you liked Matt and tried to go out with him? If you think that you have enough courage to ask him out, then do it. If you think about this and decide that you have a crush on him but weren't going to do anything about it anyway, then I'd let it go, it wasn't going to go anywhere anyway.
I'd talk to your friend though and ask her what's up. Good friends don't do what she did.
One of my best friends and I went out to grab some food a few years ago and I asked him who he liked and he told me, this girl Heidi, I told him I've been thinking about her for some time too. I asked him, are you going to ask her out, he said, I think so. I said, then do it. He did, they went out a few times, it didn't work out and she later moved.
The point is, I was honest with myself and I knew that even though I thought she was really cute and nice, I knew I wasn't going to approach her, so why kill someone elses chances then? But I also listened to my friend, asked him just how much does he really like her and found out that she's proably more important to him than to me, so I stepped out of the way.
So if you were really going to pursue Matt, then go ahead and ask him out like nothing happened. If not, then don't be jealous, it wasn't going to happen anyway. But definitely talk to your friend and either work things out or get rid of her.
Good luck.
2006-11-24 02:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by yishor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don worry u`ll find a better guy ...... such things happen in life
2006-11-24 02:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋