i met this guy, cute, sweet, honest and real fine.... And he wants to court me., but he's 21 and i'am 15.. Should i turn him down or not?!
2006-11-23 18:38:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats hot but he will go where you cannot yet go.
2006-11-23 18:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to that question.
I know of plenty 15 year old girls that I would like to "court".
But I really only want one thing.---And I know better!
This guy is too old, and he should be ashamed of himself for trying to take advantage of a young girl.
He's probably hoping that you are a virgin that he can use to build up his ego.
When you are 21, you will see how much of a loser it makes him to hit on a 15 year old girl.
He must not have any game.
If you don't believe me, ask this "honest" guy why he doesn't try to court girls his own age.
2006-11-24 02:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 21 he is an adult, and at 15 you are a minor. You may feel all grown up & stuff, but if he even kisses you it's child molestation.
Seriously.
Tell him to take a cold shower until you turn 18 at the very least. Better yet, tell him to play with someone his own age.
2006-11-24 02:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I don't think it's terrible to go out with someone who's older than you...but....don't!! If you were 21 and he was older than that, it would be OK. But you are way too young for him. I know you don't want to hear this and yes it sucks, but be honest with yourself, he just wants only one thing. And I think you know what that one thing is. Just say, No! No! No! This one thing is not only wrong for you personally, but it is illegal. Whether, or not you give consent to anything, it is illegal. Wait for someone your own age and go slow. Life goes by to fast anyway, don't speed it up more than it already is. Sorry dear. Just dry any tears and walk away with pride. I hope this helps you. Good luck and God bless.
2006-11-24 02:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by *Balanced*Sweetheart*Always* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Turn him down. He's cute, sweet, and dumb as a doorknob to be courting a minor.
2006-11-24 02:40:59 · answer #5 · answered by scruffycat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is way to old. Tell him to wait until you are 21 and if he is still interested then have him ask you
2006-11-24 02:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the age of consent in your sate. If you are underage you or your parents could get him into a world of trouble.
2006-11-24 03:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he is doing is illegal because you are under 18. If you let him court you he could go to jail.
2006-11-24 02:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your dad works for dateline nbc.... Where i live thats a criminal charge.. my next question what do you have in common.. tell his friends that he is dating a 15 year old and see how long he hangs around..
2006-11-24 02:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by canadianchipndales 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn him down he is to old. anyone over 18 isnt someone you should be dating you could get them in alot of trouble and send them to jail.
2006-11-24 02:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by tansyangeni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋